Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you’re meant to marry them.
Marriage requires a whole lot more than just feelings.
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Updated 4 years ago,December 22, 2020
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Alex Blăjan
If theyre not ready now, they should at least be willing to tell you when theywillbe ready.
Maybe their procrastination is actually a sign you arent on the same page after all.
Maybe theyre notwaitingto take the next step with you.
Maybe they dont want to take it at all.
You keep coming close to breaking up and then staying together anyway.Every couple has arguments.
Every couple goes through rough patches.
If you want to be together, you should work through your problems instead of calling it quits.
You shouldnt be having the same problems over and over again, either.
If youre repeating fights every few months, that means you never solved the initial problem.
Either come to a compromise or leave for real this time.
After all, yourethisclose to settling down permanently.
Why would you want to start dating someone new and go back to square one?
However, this mindset can be dangerous.
You shouldnt stay with someone, simply because you have a history.
Besides, are youreallycloser to marriage with them?
If they arent interested in settling down now, they might never be.
You might be wasting more time with them.
You might be better off breaking up so you could find your real forever person.
If they want to have babies and you arent interested in becoming a parent, its a problem.
you should probably want the same things if youre going to stay together forever.
Otherwise, youre only setting yourselves up for disappointment.
Youre not interested in settling down yet.Maybe youre the one who isnt interested in marriage.
Maybe you love this person but feel like you havent gotten enough life experience yet.
Maybe you want to date more people.
Maybe you want to be single for a while.
Maybe you want to try new things and thats okay.
Just because you love someone doesnt mean youre meant to marry them.
Marriage requires a whole lot more than just feelings.
