You complain every day about how much you hate your job, but you continue to stay.
If when asked, What is your favorite thing about your job?
& your answer is My lunch break and leaving, you should probably start looking elsewhere.
So, you stay because you have bills.
We spend most of our time at our jobs.
At least 8+ hours a day, 5 times per week, to be exact.
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Therefore, you must enjoy what you do.
If you find yourself complaining day in and day out, do something about it.
No one is FORCING you to stay at your miserable job.
No one is actually locking you up & throwing away the key.
By staying in a job that you hate, youre the only one keeping yourself prisoner.
Leave that miserable job and stop complaining.
Your list of hobbies only consists of going out to the bar several times a week.
From your mid-twenties on, you should by now begin to develop hobbies & interests.
Join a recreational sports team, read more books, pick up a cooking class, learn something NEW.
If you keep doing the same things that youve always done, you will keep getting the SAME results.
Get out of your comfort zone & discover new things.
Only then will your life slowly start to change in a positive manner and become less complicated.
You always have a go at just everyone and youre always the YES MAN.
You often find yourself feeling bad saying the word NO.
You get exhausted from the constant pleasing of others, news flash, YOUR FAULT!
I cannot stress enough that the word NO should be used in your everyday vocabulary.
If youre always the YES MAN, people will recognize the trait and use it to their advantage.
Mental health is key people, and stressing yourself out is only going to set your chakras off balance.
You seek constant approval on how to live your life based on the opinions of others.
Life is about making the wrong decisions and learning from them.
So, its no surprise that we navigate towards spending more time with others than we do alone.
This however is unhealthy and the only person it hurts is YOURSELF.
When you spend more time alone you will discover that its not so bad after all.
Spending time alone allows you to think more deeply, connect to your mind, body & soul.
Seeking constant comfort or connections will complicate actually forming true connections with anyone.
Relationships & connections are two things that should never feel forced.
