Here are five things people dont realize youre doing because youre afraid theyll leave.

You take a while to reply to texts.

And not because youre too busy to reply or because you havent seen the message yet.

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You constantly try and put a positive spin on your issues.

And who wouldnt want to leave someone like that?

You never ask for anyones help (even if youseriouslyneed it).

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Your motto is, I can just do it myself.

It scares you too much.

Because what if they leave?

What would you do then?

4. you’re able to be overly forgiving.

You apologize whenyourethe one who is actually owed the apology.

It also keeps you in relationships that maybe you shouldnt be taking part in anymore.

But because youre so afraid of losing someone, you stay but end up losing yourself in the process.


Its scary to think about being abandoned.

But the right people always stay.

c’mon know its okay to have needs.

Its okay to depend on others.

Its okay to trust.

Its going to be okay.