Its not about the phrases, but rather the context theyre in.
Youre my soulmate.
Translation:Youre my meal ticket.
Spencer Selover
You wont find out until its too late.
By then, Ill be chasing the next best thing.
I am crazy about you.
I cant stop thinking about you.
Translation:Are you crazy about me yet?
I cant wait to drive you crazy.
Ill reel you in with flattery, praise, and constant contact.
Ill make you feel like youre the only one I care about.
Ill start to devalue you because love isnt enough of a thrill for me.
The truth is, I get easily bored and I need the stimulation.
Your emotional reactions to my manipulation are a gold mine for me and my sadistic pleasure.
I love you, youre the best.
Translation:Youre a shiny object thats providing immense value for me at the moment.
Once your perceived value runs out, be prepared to be devalued.
Youre being crazy, insane, and paranoid.
Translation:I didnt expect you to catch on so quickly to what Ive been doing behind your back.
Youre interfering with my plans of being with another lover uninterrupted and it infuriates me.
Or youre expecting the commitment and the grand future I always promised you.
I would never lie to you.
Translation:I enjoy lying straight to your face and watching you be duped.
But I just want to establish a preemptive defense and pretend I hate liars and immoral people.
If youve been manipulated by a psychopathic or narcissistic individual, youre not alone.
You may wish toprocess your traumaswith a mental health professional.
You deserve to heal.
