Men are at their best when they are giving.
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Updated 8 years ago,August 18, 2017
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Let him make you laugh.
João Silas
If there is one thing that men love its external validation that they are all that.
And this is okay.
Its different from women and its okay.
Let your man know that he makes you laugh.
You are giving him the ultimate validation that he is being appreciated by you, the woman he loves.
And the smile that you give him with that laugh?
João Silas
It will make him weak in the knees.
And putty in your hands.Putty is good…2.
Be thankful when he gives.
Men are at their best when they are giving.
Its in their nature.
And often times, when a man does give to a woman she freezes.
I have a client whose husband used to buy her jewelry because he knew that she loved it.
Unfortunately, everything he bought her wasnt to her taste.
She would thank him sweetly but then return it for something that she wanted.
And every time she did this she hurt him.
So much so that eventually he stopped buying her jewelry.
And that didnt make anyone happy.So be open to your man giving to you, big or small.
And thank him for it.
You will be glad you did and he will be happy.
Dont be too helpful.
Women are, by nature, caregivers.
Especially with our spouses.
But men dont want that!
They dont want us to be TOO helpful.
Dont get me wrong.
Men love having their socks picked up and their laundry done for them.
They like not having to buy Christmas presents for the extended family or wipe down the sink.
But they do want to feel like they can take of themselves.
That they are a contributing member of a couple.
Maybe even sometimes the guy in charge.So let him do his thing.
Take care of himself.
And maybe even take care of you for a change.
Do you want him to start equating you with his mother?
I didnt think so.
I know I know.
How can I say that in this modern world?
Men and women are equal.
Women can do everything that men can do and do some of it even better.
We are not soft.
We arent going to act like girls.
But one thing that we cant ignore is human nature.
It is in our biology that men are masculine and women feminine.
We each have standard accompanying traits.
Men are strong and protective.
Women are soft and nurturing.
And, no matter what the world says, men and women react to each others strength and softness.
So let yourself be a little girlish.
Let yourself be soft around your man.
Laugh at his jokes.
Make him feel like you need him.
Make him feel like a man.5.
Let him know when he finds your ON button.
What do I mean by that?
Here is an example:
My ex-husband and I had a no power cord rule for all gift-giving occasions.
He could not buy me anything that included a power cord.
One year, for Mothers Day, he took a risk and bought me a garage door opener.
I loved it so much that that night he got lucky.
From then on he worked diligently to find things that he could do that would activate my ON button.
And really, that was a win-win situation for both of us.
