Its when you learn who you are and what you want.
Its a time for discovery and constant change.
Ready or not, your 20s are going to bring about a lot of uncomfortable transitions.
Friends will come and go.
You are going to grow up and grow out of a lot of relationships.
But, youll also find friendships that only grow stronger with age.
Youll learn to accept that not all friendships are meant to last.
Some are forever, but some are out of convenience.
And, thats okay.
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And, youll change your mind.
Your 20s should be called your trial and error years.
You are going to fall on your face more times than it’s possible for you to count.
Youll get frustrated.Youll change your mind.
You may change your major or switch career paths.
You may switch jobs or try living in another state.
And you may change the plan again.
This doesnt make you a failure.
Youll experience love (or something like it) and youll get your heart broken.
Youll likely break some hearts yourself.
But, youll also learn what youre looking for, and with that comes a renewed sense of self-worth.
Youll stop settling for people that are reckless with your emotions.
Youll know what personality traits are important to you.
Youll compare yourself to others.
Dont let yourself fall down this rabbit hole.
Because its not a fair comparison in the first place.
There is no correct pace, so dont let self-imposed timelines rob you of your happiness.
Youll start to find yourself and learn to love what you find.
Youre going to start figuring out what life looks like when youre settling into your own routine.
Youll learn what it takes to be independent and the pride that accompanies that process.
Keep your eyes on your goals and never stop working toward them.
Dont let another persons path distract you from your own.
Youre going to grow and youre going to change.
It is all just part of it.
