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Updated 7 months ago,October 9, 2024
A quick guide on making him fall for you.
Have you noticed how certain women seem to have all the luck with men?
They dont really seem todoanything, and people are just drawn to them.
Derrick Freske
And this has nothing to do with looks.
Some people just have that certain something, theje ne sais quoi.
And these qualities help them succeed in their relationships but carry over into their lives as well.
So what is it?
What is it that makes someone so effortlessly alluring?
What is it that makes a man want to pursue a woman and even commit to her?
Lets break it down.
Being totally happy on your own.
Being desperate for arelationshipis not whats going to get you a relationship.
If anything, itactually repels guys.
But it becomes a problem when you attach things to having a relationship.
until you have a boyfriend.
When you do this, you are basically ignoring your issues and what you should probably face.
Youre falling into the as-soon-as trap.
And its an easy trap to fall into!
But happiness does not from as soon as.
You cant place conditions on your happiness.
You have to accept where you are in life.
If youre single, then embrace it!
Before I started dating my husband I was in love with being single.
And this came after years of hating my single status and being ashamed of it.
But I decided to do things differently.
I decided to just enjoy it and embrace it.
), but Ill admit…
I was a little sad about losing that single life!
You put yourself first.
In the early phases, hey be a little selfish and put yourself first.
Im telling you this because this isnt what most women do.
Most women prioritize the guy- they prioritize his wants, his needs, and his feelings.
But that comes later.
In the beginning, you are not proving your worth to him.
You are just operating from a place of knowing your worth, of feeling secure within yourself.
Dont dwell on questions like: does he like me?
And instead, consider: Do I like him?
Is he worthy of me?
If he wants you to drive over to his house at 11 pm, you will.
This is not sexy, high-value behavior!
This is a woman he takes for granted, not the kind of woman he treats as a priority.
This is the kind of woman who ends up blindsided when he suddenly leaves her for someone else.
Knowing what you deserve and not accepting less is sexy.
This is what gets a man to step up and bring his A-game to win you over.
Dont be afraid to draw your line in the sand.
OK, so this is something that happens a lot.
I get messages all the time along the lines of: My boyfriend said this and that.
My reply to these questions is usually, Well, have you asked him?
And the response is, well no…
I havent even thought of that.
Now I appreciate the business, but all they really needed to do was ask him!
I get where that hesitation comes from.
But doing this… is being desperate and needy, the two things you were trying to avoid!
It is very appealing and sexy to know what you want and express your needs.
Confident, high-value people arent afraid to put themselves out there and express what they want.
Dont give yourself away right away.
Im not talking about sex, although I have adifferent articleaddressing that, Im talking about your emotional self.
You dont need to put everything out there right on the table.
A lot of women feel like they have to show all their cards upfront.
Hell know because hell find out eventually!
It is important to hold yourself back just a touch, to leave a little bit of mystery.
Its just the art of attraction and seduction.
It all just essentially comes down to being a high-value woman.
Thats why games can be so effective at luring a guy in… they create the illusion of confidence.
But its just an illusion!
You cant keep up the ruse forever, eventually, your real self is going to come out.
I dont want you to pretend to be a confident, high-value woman, I want you tobeone.
And this kind of woman does not put on a whole song and dance to impress a man.
