I was truly letting go of love with love for myself.
Are you wondering about tips for letting go of love with love for yourself?
The best way to trulyrecover from a break-upis to start loving yourself fully and completely.
Alex Perez
So, what are some ideas for letting go of love with love for yourself?
Do things that comfort you.
Your body and your spirit may feel broken but some nurturing will help them heal.
When my husband left me, I was left devastated and alone.
My days were endless and I didnt know how I was going to survive being alone.
I had nothing to do so I bought the Groupon and I made an appointment for a massage.
That massage was one of the best hours of my life.
From that day on, I would spend some time every day doing things to take care of myself.
I was truly letting go of love with love for myself.
Do things that make you feel good.
Another thing that I did during the months after my husband left was I startedvolunteeringat a local food bank.
Volunteering was good for me for two reasons.
Instead, I spent those hours helping those in need get food to feed their families.
A big part of loving yourself is taking care of other people.
If you have the opportunity in your day to help another person, do it.
Theres nothing better than helping someone in need to nurture love of self.
Spend time with those who love you.
Spending time with those who love you will remind you of all the reasons why you should love yourself.
A client of mine was recently left by a man she considered to be the love for life.
By the time he left, she had no love for herself.
Because she was left without a place to live, my client returned home.
Her parents welcomed her with open arms.
Her brothers and sisters who lived nearby came over regularly.
Her family circled the wagons and showed her their love.
So, if you are dealing with the loss of lover, reconnect with your friends and family.
They love you for who you are and thats exactly what you should probably be reminded of right now.
Soon after I got divorced, I decided to get my life coach certification.
Once I was certified, I set down the daunting path of building my own business.
What do you want to do?
If you are struggling with letting go of love, its time to take that step.
Be the person youve always wanted to be, do what you have always wanted to do.
Make a list of all you have to offer.
Those of us who are single all have a list of attributes that we want in a man.
We want them to be smart and funny and handsome and athletic and successful and more.
And, of course, we should want those things.
Because we are awesome.
I am willing to take risks.
Im willing to make myself vulnerable.
Any man would be lucky to have me.
I typed up this list and put it on my refrigerator.
Its so easy to focus on everything that is wrong with you when you have been rejected but DONT.
it’s possible for you to do it!
