So, how do you feel when you see your person?
Does your heart leap or do you just feel peaceful?
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Updated 6 years ago,July 21, 2019
Have you met a guy?
Daria Shevtsova
Its all so wonderful.
Opening yourself up to someone can be terrifying.
Letting down your guard to let a man into your heart makes you tremendously vulnerable.
Because of this, many women are hesitant to let themselves fall in love.
But how to know?
It is very important to understand the difference between being in love with someone and loving someone.
Its an important distinction and one that only you’re able to know.
Distance can be hard.
When you love someone, watching them walk out the door can be physically painful.
You count the minutes, hours or days until you will see them again.
When you are reunited its like you feel whole again.
It is important, however, to know the difference between obsessive love and being in love.
When we are in obsessive love when we are apart from our lover we cannot function.
Our jobs and friendships suffer and the physical pain from the distance is debilitating.
And, man, you know that the reunion will be worth the wait…
3.
You like the good and the bad.
When you are in love you like everything about your person.
You love that they want to spend so much time with you or ask you questions about your day.
You are always happy to be with them and love when they touch you.
You appreciate the way they fire up the door for you or give you foot rubs at night.
Furthermore, when you are in love with someone you even love the things that you find frustrating.
Things that you truly wish could be different.
Yes, I am madly in love with this guy.
You dont see any red flags.
If you truly love someone, you arent constantly questioning the relationship.
Do you think that you want to be in this relationship but just arent sure?
Do you think about whether you are making a mistake in committing to this person?
Do you spend time thinking about other people instead?
Do you find yourself rationalizing your relationship more often than not?
You are eternally faithful.
Do your friends introduce you to other people who they think might be better for you?
If either of these things is the case, you might not be in love with your man.
People who are in love with their partner dont go seeking other potential mates.
You know that keeping your eyes firmly focused on him is what you want to do every day.
And he will love you for it!
Asking yourself Am I in love?
is a very important part of taking the next step in a relationship.
If you dont love your guy, let him go.
He deserves to find love and dont waste either of your times pretending you do.
How fun and how lucky are you!
