When we’re in the car, she’ll leave her hand outstretched waiting for mine.

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Updated 5 months ago,December 4, 2024

The way she looks at me.

Then she would smile and quickly fall asleep.

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God & Man

Its a minor thing, but I really appreciate it!

:)

Sometimes Ill stay up and watch TV in bed, while she falls asleep next to me.

When were in the car, shell leave her hand outstretched waiting for mine.

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Shes always considerate of me, sometimes shell go shopping and just appear with goods I need.

I tell her not to buy me things, and she says, theyre not gifts theyre necessities.

Just talks to me like she gives a shit.

Im not after anything huge.

Its big enough to know shes on my side.

When I wanted to study and work abroad?

When I wanted to move to the Bay Area to take a better role?

I have a pull-up bar at home.

Sometimes she makes me do pull-ups completely naked and she just watches and giggles.

Whenever one of us gets home, she calls me sexy man And rushes to give me a hug.

Her initiating physical intimacy, whether sexual or non-sexual.

Her putting in effort to look her best for me.

Compliments and non-verbal attention.

Those quirky little things she does when she acts like Im catnip to her.

Asking me to take a shower with her.

She does alot of other stuff cuz shes great but that one is my favorite.

Holds me close and says mine in a cute voice.

We give each other massages all the time.

It certainly makes my heart whole.

I started dating one girl and she had heard me talk about playing basketball.

Im not great, but Im pretty decent for a hairy thirty-something white boy.

I just walked over to the sideline and smooched her and said hello.

She pulled me close and locked eyes and whispered, Sexy man!

It made me feel like a total stud, like, yeah the lady over there likes my moves.

Wakes me up in the middle of the night and says I had a nightmare, hold me.

Im always groggy and shit but love that she wants me to hold her.

My ex (daughters mom) spends a considerable time trying to make me miserable.

My girlfriend is the antidote for that.

She kisses me when im asleep and even if its subconscious.

I cant really explain it but I have never felt so wanted in my life.

Initiates sex often and eagerly.

And then we cuddle and forget about everything else.

Texts like ti amo, tesoro.

Ill walk through her front door and she will just start unbuttoned my shirt, etc.

while talking about something completely unrelated to what shes doing- with a big smile on her face.

She actually listens with interest to the things I talk about.

18 years married; when she kisses my earlobes it is such that i know shes crazy about me.

Makes my heart do the ol flippy floppies

A simple glance can melt your heart away.

Sometimes shed whine like noooo dont go yet and pull me back in bed longer.

She buys me little gifts and leaves them in places where Ill find them.

Sometimes when we walk together she hugs my arm and pulls me close to her.

Over the weekend she requested I pull a box down from a shelf in the garage.

Needless to say I will be placing everything in boxes and placing them on shelves all over the house.

Pretty much sums it up.

Knowing shes thinking of me as much as I am of her is crucial.

Also, she never, ever second guesses or nags me.

If I say I got it then I fucking do.

Otherwise Im bluntly asking for input.

And she has good input, or the self awareness to know she should say she doesnt.

Takes care of my kids, the house, the meals, the shopping, and me.

I have a dope wife.

She cant fall asleep while Im not in the room let alone not hugging her.

Grabs my body telling me how beautiful it is including when were having sex.

Always posts stories of us on her social media, shes proud to show me off so to speak.

Its really nice to have a girl thats really into you and isnt afraid to show it!

My ex used to always be touching me in some way while we slept.

Really hit home that she really loved me.

She always says good morning handsome or some version of that.

Tells me often how much I mean to her.

If Im stuck at work shell bring me dinner.

She (and our dog) usually greet me when I come in the door from work.

They both give me hugs and kisses and proceed to ask me about the day.

(Yes, the dog too.)

Its a huge plus, and for sure helps me get through all my days.

Especially when I am able to watch them both fall to sleep at the end of the day.

She routinely calls me on her lunch break to tell me she loves me and misses me.

Too many past relationships where I carried way too much weight- physically and emotionally.

Made me believe she felt more safe when she was in my arms.

That shit made me melt and feel desired.

Best gf ever

Were getting married in 39 days.

How do I know this?

She tells me EVERY DAY how many days until the wedding.

She has been doing this for months.

If Im away from her, she will text me as soon as she wakes up.

She is extremely excited to be marrying me, shes probably the happiest Ive ever seen her.