When they made plans in front of me and didnt invite me.
3.She started copying me.
It was something straight out of Single White Female.
Toa Heftiba
4.When my friend would never criticize himself for his mistakes.
He would always blame others and make others just feel downright useless sometimes.
5.When he started cheating on his gf indiscriminately and then bragged about it.
We ended up fighting over it and arent really close anymore.
6.When I moved states and they didnt notice.
7.When they made plans in front of me and didnt invite me.
8.When he started defining friendships as people who are blindly loyal to him and his actions.
9.Everything I did was wrong.
My food choices, my hobbies, boys I liked.
They may have wanted a friend, but it sure as hell wasnt me.
12.I realized that while I sometimes enjoyed hanging out with her, I always felt worse wed meet up.
That was the death knell.
He was texting me through this situation too.
I hadnt told her then but she found out 2 days later from a mutual friend of ours.
I ended the friendship after that.
Lost two of the most important people in my life within a week.
14.When she would never respect my boundaries but flipped out if I didnt confirm to hers.
15.When he lost his shit that we came second to a group of girls in pub trivia.
She also doesnt give a fuck about my needs unless theyre somehow able to fulfil hers (i.e.
Concert tickets toherfavorite band formybirthday).
Im gonna have to just cut my losses.
I cant keep forcing myself to hang out with her when it makes me feel like shit.
There was plenty of stuff before this, but that was the straw for me.
Im not an alcoholic person and they make me feel bad for not joining them have fun.
Now, theyre starting to treat me as if Im no one.
Always the last option in the group.
No one wants to go with me during lunch.
They only notice me when they ask for help on a particular subject.
It just makes me sad.
20.Nah trust me, you dont wanna ask her out, shes just a hoe.
He then proceeded to try it on with her.
21.She pretended to have millions of dollars but lived in a condo.
She also was a know-it-all, and used fake facts to make it seem like she was right.
22.They would routinely pick on me.
23.When we were in our 20s and in a bar, and we met two guys.
Friendship over, removed from my life.
24.When I realized has zero self-reflection.
EVERYTHING that went down was always someone elses fault.
25.When I realized he was a full blown alcoholic.
He would get black out drunk and piss himself, throw up everywhere, etc.
and then justify it by saying I dont remember, so it didnt happen.
26.When I realized I felt dread every time their message icon popped up.
27.When she got sick of me and threw me away like an old toy, replacing me almost instantly.
She was the maid of honor in my wedding.
She knew about my intense jealousy issues.
She knew I had been cheated on by every other man I had dated.
At some point when I was off fetching drinks my friend asked my husband to sleep with her.
When he did a double-take huh..whaaa?
She revised to asking to sleep with us.
He immediately came and told me.
I told her right then and there, no fucking way.
And I wanted to go home and not cause some kind of scene at this party.
I went home, I went to bed.
(Hubby came with).
My friend never apologized or acted like it ever happened.
She was right back to her me, me, me drone the very next day.
She wasnt black-out drunk and had no issue mentioning other parts of the party.
I stopped initiating contact, and she never asked why or tried to make an effort back to me.
30.I almost got my ass beat by a group of guys for some shithedid.
It wouldve been a by association ass beating.
We are in our 30s, this shouldnt be a conversation we have.
The last contact I had with him is when he added me on snapchat.
33.When she wanted to uproot and move a fourth time in almost two years.
(No to all)
Happy ending- dad divorced and got full custody, I got new friends.
She also tried to shit talk about me to my boyfriend.
37.When she lied about having cancer.
She was not pregnant and 100% knew she wasnt.
40.I was considering suicide and he was encouraging me to do it.
41.When she threatened to hurt herself if I didnt do what she wanted.
She asked me if she could sleep over at my house one night.
I told her no, since I had grandparents visiting the next day.
She continued and tried to convince me to let her.
I didnt let her, I ditched her the same year.
Shes still alive to this day(hopefully).
She has a girlfriend and is moving out of town soon.
42.When she fake cried all night in the one bathroom (not the stall) of our friends wedding.
The whole evening people came up to the bride letting her know about the girl.
The bride knew the girl was toxic, but only after the wedding invitations went out.
Ruined my friends wedding.
Thats how I ended a decade long friendship.
Thankfully hes 100% out of my life now, dont want anything to do with that guy again.
45.When they told me straight up that they were used to manipulating people.
46.When they started insulting literally everything/everyone and thinking they were the absolutely coolest.
48.She slept with a guy I was in love with.
We werent in a relationship but she knew my feelings for him.
Slept with him the very night that I confessed that to her.
And then later said that he raped her.
I found out much later that she had invited him over and cried and begged to sleep with him.
And then always played the victim and claimed life had wronged her always.
It took me a year, but I completely cut her off.
49.When I noticed she was a pathological liar.
She used to refer to me as her DUFF, the designated ugly fat friend.
She tried to make up a dozen excuses as to why she couldnt be my maid of honor.
She couldnt afford to travel to my wedding, I offered to pay for it all.
Feels bad, man.
