Stabbed herself in the leg, blamed me, and got my ass whopped by her dad.
Dont end up like these people fromAsk Redditwho dated a psychopath.
1.When he told me.
Max Apanasenko
Had been dating this guy awhile and (I thought) things were going really well.
Ill never forget the day because he took me to see Aladdin.
We get back to my place and everythings normal.
Were conversing and suddenly he gets this weird look in his eyes.
He says, I cant see you anymore.
Im afraid I might hurt you.
Im thinking hurt, like cheat on me, you know psychologically.
His voice changed and he looked even worse and said, You dont understand.
Ive been having these dreams where I hurt you.
I mean really hurt you.
Then, he jumped off the couch and ran out the front door.
Never saw him again.
Never tried to call him cause it really shook me up.
I guess I should be glad it stopped there.
He just seemed so normal up to that point.
2.Well, we were on the freeway one day, I was driving.
I did apologize, and soon after that, I extricated myself from that relationship.
3.One day I woke up to find all the men missing from my Facebook friends list.
Including cousins and uncles.
My ex didnt think Id notice.
4.Dated my psycho for about 8 months.
Used to like to role play, and all that.
She had a thing with being tied up, and so one night she asked to reverse roles.
I was ok with that.
I moved out the next day.
He was the king of gaslighting.
It got to the point where I was seriously doubting my own sanity because he would deny everything.
As the last person was leaving, he and I were standing in the backyard by the gate.
He grabbed my by the belt loop and pulled me towards him.
I thought he wanted a hug.
but this was all my fault (again…
He wasnt pulling me close.
I still have the scar, but I dont have him.
8.Kept talking on the phone and texting his mother during the date.
She died years ago.
Those are the shattered pieces of my heart.
Safe to say I have no regrets and have never doubted my gut instinct since.
10.Driving a girl home from a nice date, she started crying right before we got home.
I asked what was wrong and her response was, This is who I am, Im drama.
I turned it up a little and started singing along.
I tried to calm him down- its just a song I liked!
It was about then I realized she was a psycho.
I realized then that hed completely rationalized away his psychotic behavior and hed eventually rationalize away abusing me.
14.When I locked him out of the house and saidyoure a psychoand he smiled knowingly.
15.Decided she was pregnant when I tried to break up with her.
There were lots of red flags beforehand, but that was really the icing on the cake.
We made a doctors appointment to confirm and she cancelled it behind my back.
Turns out she pulled all of this on her next boyfriend when he tried to break up with her.
16.When she started calling me little brother during sexual activities.
Its one way to lose wood real fast.
17.I tried to leave after yet another heated fight.
So I went back to get my cats before I left.
He flipped because I cared more about my cats (well duh).
So he grabbed a steak knife put it to his throat and demanded I watch.
I called my mom went into a panic and she raced over scooped me up and brought me home.
He never did it, he just wanted the control.
18.First boyfriend in college, we had only been exclusive for one week before the psychosis started.
First thing, I noticed food was going missing in my house.
We didnt live together.
He was throwing out my food he didnt want me to eat.
My boyfriend answered and accused him of being a home wrecker.
Tried to break up with him then but he changed completely and begged me not to.
Been free of him 2 years now and Ive never been happier!
Shed dream I was cheating on her then get mad at me in real life.
Look, if you have dreams like that, dont hold me responsible.
I should be the one mad at you for having such an incredibly low idea of me.
Well, I set my alarm and sent him the text, to which he replied, Yay!
I said BYE!!!
I walked away and never spoke to him again.
24.We had a whole bunch of trust issues, add to the fact we were long distance.
I told her I was sleeping instead cause I was incredibly exhausted.
That was just one of many incidents but was so jarring that I called it quits.
Its been almost a year single now and I couldnt be happier, cause Im depressed.
They were in a clear plastic bag like pet stores use.
The boy was super excited.
The boy was instantly hysterical.
When I asked her why she did it, she replied, They probably would have died anyway.
Then proceeded to threaten that he would accuse me of attacking him if I were to tell anyone.
28.We were eating dinner at a restaurant.
He got up and started yelling threats.
Stuff like Im gonna shoot down all of your windows!!
It was because he caught a waiter glancing at me.
He was shady as shit.
Left him after he kicked our kitten out of anger.
Took the kitty with me.
Man young me was dumb.
FOUR YEARS into my marriage.
I took photos of all the holes in my walls & got myself a restraining order and a divorce.
Courts dont much appreciate Stolen Valour being your excuse for violence and emotional abuse/manipulation.
31.I shaved my vag and he accused me of cheating because of it.
32.He came to my house and accused me of cheating because the cat dish had been moved.
I asked him to explain that one to me.
Another time my daughter cut her toenails in the living room.
Ex found one of the toe nail clippings and flipped because thats a mans fingernail!
Noped outta there after that.
34.Woke up one morning and she told me that she kept having dreams where I was dead.
Then said the kicker, And, I wake up happy.
Engagement over shortly after that.
35.We were riding the train home from a date.
I look over and shes logging in to her ex-boyfriends Facebook account.
He never changed his password.
Her checking up on him became reading through not just his statuses but also his private messages.
I asked why she couldnt just look at his profile normally, she said he blocked me.
While visiting him I found handwritten love letters that were VERBATIM what he had written me.
Except different womens names on each one.
Then he texted me asking what these messages were about and why I was cheating on him.
And it did permanently wreck the friendship I had with my co-worker.
39.She was just manipulative.
Shouldve listened to her friend who warned me not to date her.
But I did… twice.
Just all sorts of stupid shit to get me to buy her things.
Then she bragged about using me for money to mutual friends.
I dont generally hold grudges, but for her, I made an exception.
40.My friend found a psycho.
Met her at the bar and ended up taking her home.
She decided it should be more than just a one night stand and suggested a date the following weekend.
Shed somehow find out where we would be and threaten us with law suits for ruining her life.
She then stood up, and started running into walls.
Bloodied herself up real good, and I couldnt get her to stop.
Downstairs neighbor heard the commotion and called the police.
Police show up, and see her sitting on the couch all bloody.
Police become very interested in me.
Police provide me an escort to the hospital (still dont trust me I suspect).
During her 2 month stay on the top floor of the hospital I continued to visit her.
43.Didnt really understand how unhealthy she was until after our breakup.
Had to get a restraining order and take her to court over trying to sabotage my life/career.
It was super messed up and I genuinely hope she got some help.
44.Stabbed herself in the leg, blamed me, and got my ass whopped by her dad.
45.When she got angry that my family would still be in my life if her and I broke up.
So let me slow that down.
46.Stopped in the middle of riding me, to get off and punch me in the groin.
No explanation, just laughter.
They just drank water and sat there, occasionally glancing at us.
Needless to say I ended things shortly after that.
48.I had my eyes closed once while we were having sex and he was rubbing my clit with something.
He asked, Do you know what that is?
I looked down and it was the handle of his knife.
Wanted to know how much was in each paycheck.
It was his own fault he misread what I had texted him.
It was finally to the point where random people who were nearby were like you just got dumped.
50.It was a normal Sunday evening.
My ex-husband had been without a job for going on a few years now.
I did this every Sunday evening for three years and the process takes about an hour and a half.
Another thing that was common was that he was an alcoholic with a very bad temper.
I was in complete and total shock.
I just sat there in awe of it all.
I am so glad that piece of shit is out of my life.
