Being close to exes.
I am not part of the “it’s super healthy” crowd.
I think it’s weird and unnatural.
Artem Bali
No Linda, youre just bitchy.
Being okay with cheating culture, admitting to having cheated before, laughing/egging on friends into cheating.
I need a partner who believes as strongly as I do in loyalty and monogamy.
3.People who are not good at a macro level.
4.When they constantly outdo you.
Have a good memory?
Had a shitty day?
OH IT DOESNT EVEN COMPARE TO THEIRS!
Like seriously, calm down.
Its not a competition.
5.If shes proud of the fact that she doesnt read books.
Either you trust me or you dont.
7.If they dont take care of themselves.
8.Not being willing to work through conflict quickly.
You may not like arguing, but putting it off till tomorrow sometimes makes it much worse.
9.Someone thats always stressed.
Especially the kind of person that says its okay to be stressed out, its good for you.
Im a very chill person and sure some things stress me out, but Im not a stressful person.
I will deal with the situation as it arises.
Or, my favorite, why didnt you call me, I thought you were dead!
10.Being close to exes.
I am not part of the its super healthy crowd.
I think its weird and unnatural.
11.Being a cheap ass.
12.Being on the phone 24/7.
I fucking hate it.
If you want to be on the phone, why are we even trying?
13.If we cant both talk, and enjoy silence.
14.If they have kids thats fine but if they dont take care of them that is a deal breaker.
15.Incapable of introspection, which seems to be a bigger problem now than it used to be.
Most problems can be solved through introspection but none can without it.
16.Having different political views (which involves many aspects).
17.Only talking about themselves.
18.Using me as a target for anything.
Pranks, jokes, bad moods, sarcasm.
I want a lover, not a personal bully.
19.If she is a super picky eater.
Ok, hear me out…
I love to cook, and sharing food and recipes is a big part of my family dynamic.
Just not like entire aisles worth of food.
21.Anyone who falls back on typical gender stereotypes when they fuck up.
I want to be with someone who owns their actions and communicates with me when we have problems.
22.Dirty bathroom or just a dirty house in general.
Usually means they dont care much about personal hygiene either.
Cant connect without relating through good music.
25.Someone who only ever points out all the negative things and makes you doubt yourself.
26.Lack of ambition whether it be in work or their education.
Also if they have double standards.
Lack of humility or communication.
Every topic turns into a debate or argument.
29.Lack of empathy, especially towards elderly, children, and those who are clearly suffering.
Also people who dont like dogs.
30.I dont want a woman whos a damsel in distress.
31.Posts too much on social media.
32.Someone who lacks any opinion of their own.
I went on a date with a guy who seemed to be agreeing with me on absolutely everything.
I am in no way someone who enjoys arguments or disagreements.
But its okay to have different opinions and preferences.
I cant imagine being happy with someone who pretends to prefer something just because I do.
Im not sure how that other person could remain happy in a long term relationship.
33.Talk shit behind people backs and then be all nice and fake to their faces.
34.Had a guy tell me Im not your therapist after asking how my day was.
If we cant have clear communication, its over.
You think you know someone.
35.They have no hobbies.
36.No appreciation for dark humor, and cant stand cursing.
Sorry but its how I cope with the shit Ive had to deal with and am currently dealing with.
Drunk on Friday and want a cigarette cool.
But doing it everyday is too much.
38.When a guy tries to control you when youre barely in the talking stage.
39.Lack of confidence/constant need for validation.
That also ties into the ability to actually make important decisions and not be indecisive about everything.
Like when you put the spoon in your mouth I dont need to hear it click your teeth.
41.Not being kind to animals.
44.If theyre really talkative and extremely opinionated about every.
Ive dated someone like that and he drove me up the wall every day.
45.Throws things when theyre angry and also not taking responsibility for their wrongdoings.
Went through a not so good childhood with things being thrown and slammed out of anger.
Cant handle that as an adult.
The reverse is also true.
If you dont laugh or make me laugh, why are we even trying?
Itd be way too weird for me.
50.Lack of a normal amount of self-awareness.
