Being too cool to do anything.
It shows youre vulnerable and self-conscious and you dont have an ounce of real confidence.
Way more attracted to a man who isnt afraid to laugh at himself opposed to one that is.
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1.Trying to hit on a woman by telling her how unattractive you find other types of women (i.e.
telling a bigger woman how ugly you think skinny women are or vice versa).
2.Bragging about fights or going to jail.
Literally no one cares.
3.Bragging about your sex life.
I dont want to know how many girls want you.
It literally does nothing for me except think you maybe are kinda a tool to girls.
4.Being stupid or clueless about feminine things.
Like, cant he read?
Tampax pearl, regular, 18 count.
Pick up the box and go, ya dolt.
5.Frowning or looking alpha in pictures.
Nearly every dating site picture has a guy, backwards baseball cap, sternly looking at camera.
I want to date someone who is friendly and can smile!
6.Calling other men unmasculine because they dont like a certain hobby/movie/music/tv.
7.Bragging about how much they can drink.
8.Being too cool to do anything.
It shows youre vulnerable and self-conscious and you dont have an ounce of real confidence.
Way more attracted to a man who isnt afraid to laugh at himself opposed to one that is.
10.Doing that thing during sex where you move your hips in a circle.
It does however take me out of the moment and cause me to think What?
11.When its hot and heavy and you go straight for the vajayjay.
No foreplay except for some kisses.
That gets so boring.
When you shove your dick into my neck like a battering ram.
I need to use my esophagus later to swallow food.
When you think we will think less of you when you say I dont know.
Its ok if you dont know, just dont pretend to know something you dont.
When you think we will think less of you if you show emotion.
When you call other women bitches or hoes.
When every time I put my hand on your arm, you immediately flex your bicep.
You just made it weird.
When you fuck like a porn star.
Can we find a position we both enjoy?
When you talk shit about your boys or your boys people over petty stuff.
12.Claiming to be an Alpha or putting other people down.
Trashing other people is just lame.
Theres a hundred conversations we could have and you wanna talk about the waitresses weight?
And the alpha bullshit is, to borrow a phrase, beta af.
I just want a decent conversation, and your here flirting.
Ya know what im getting at?
14.I hate it when guys try too hard to be the MANLY MAN.
Like, Dave, Ive been on my own for awhile, I can open a jar of salsa.
15.How much they party or did party in their past.
16.Getting aggressive towards people.. thats not impressive or manly, its scary AF.
17.Showing people intimate photos you received from girls who trusted you.
Its cheap and despicable af.
18.Being mean to people.
Some guys think they have to be mean to be manly.
Give me a kind one any day.
20.Being mean to/about their moms.
I hope this isnt as common as my experience has made it out to be.
And Ive met a lot of those moms, and most have been lovely.
21.That throat thing where they go overboard trying to bring up phlegm and spit on the pavement.
23.Guys who refuse to do something because they perceive it to be a shot against their masculinity.
No one was thinking that.
25.I really dont like when guys are sooo insistent on paying on the first date.
Even if thats not the case, it shifts the power balance and that makes me uncomfortable.
It doesnt make you less of a man.
26.For me… excessive winking.
Cannot handle it at all.
Im happily married (not to him) and he knows it.
29.I hate smooth talking.
It sounds super fake.
Its really no win.
30.Talking shit about all your crazy ex girlfriends.
Men with self control and standards are much more respectable.
33.Bragging about their bodies or hours logged at the gym.
34.Saying they dont order girly drinks.
Instead of making them look manly, it just makes them look insecure.
Theres better ways to start a conversation than that.
35.Loud ass cars, that shit is just annoying and makes you seem like an asshole.
36.Pulling out and slapping their penis on the vag, like in porn.
Doesnt do much, but thanks I guess?
Most stuff guys see in porn and try irl is a no for me.
I dont know why some men believe that their manly sweat will drive a woman wild.
Not if you dont wash regularly.
Every other word being bro.
39.Guys who constantly compliment a womens body or take a stab at touch it.
There is nothing remotely attractive about emotional manipulation.
I have been in a few abusive relationships (emotional, physical and sexual).
Even just a guy saying he wants to beat the shit out of someone scares tf out of me.
44.Bragging about money and expensive stuff they own.
45.Not doing (or just hiding) things that are considered girly.
I cant stress this enough.
Spinning your dick in circles does nothing for us.
47.Claiming they can drive well while drunk.
49.Comparing us to other women, even if its meant to compliment us.
Its not a compliment for me if you better push someone else down while saying it, fyi.
I thought it was a little gross, and asked how he got into the situation.
We broke up soon after, and I havent talked to him in years.
