Constantly swiping right on apps never getting a match.
1.When I see my wife check out other men in front of me.
I can fully accept she will find other people attractive in life and Im fine with that.
Jonathan Borba
2.Im a really skinny dude and people think I dont already know that.
3.My weight in comparison to my girlfriend.
5.Im a sensitive dude.
Fear of dying alone?
Long-term single doesnt help.
Fear of social interactions?
Again, long-term really doesnt help.
Lack of motivation of self-improvement?
Youve guessed, being long-term single only compounds these issues.
7.My lack of manly traits.
I feel really, really uncomfortable taking my shirt off at a pool party or something similar.
While I know the expectation is unrealistic, I feel lesser for not being fit.
Im in good shape.
A lot of people would argue fantastic shape.
Muscular, six-pack-in-the-right-light lean, tall, broad, and barrel chested.
I still have man boobies.
Not gyno, not a little spot of breast tissue behind the nipple, no.
9.Random erectile dysfunction, shit just strikes like lightening sometimes and it sucks.
10.I hate that Im losing my hair before 30.
Baldness does not agree with me.
12.Comparing myself to other guys my age.
Most have moved out of their parents houses, some have kids.
Im getting there but I feel I am so far behind.
I make it very difficult to care about me long term because of it.
15.My uselessness in relationships.
16.After being cheated on its pretty hard to believe anybody could actually have genuine feelings for me.
Being incredibly awkward and shy does not help the above.
Been making a change and the last five months Ive added 17 lbs to about 132.
But its been a very difficult journey eating and being bloated and constantly cooking enough.
The gym has been good to me though.
19.My lack of drive.
Lack of achievements and seeing any endeavor all the way through.
I see it as cowardliness and incompetence.
I cannot talk to strangers well.
I do not have that skill.
Let alone having much in common with a lot of people especially at my workplace.
23.Constantly swiping right on apps never getting a match.
Even if I was the last person on Earth Id want great hair, unfortunately I inherited shitty genetics.
I resent my parents far more than Ill ever reveal to them.
Im always nervous about the mortgage, paying bills and providing for our household.
Its not even like I dont make a good wage or cant afford things.
Nor does she expect me to pay for everything.
I just feel obligated to do it and stress over it all the time.
27.My high voice, which probably caused my social anxiety.
It sounds like I never went through puberty.
(I am 19 yo) And phone calls are exceptionally awkward.
29.Seeing these younger guys my age in BMWs pull up next to you and stare.
I get it dude, Im in a Honda.
c’mon keep staring.
31.Sincerely opening up in a relationship.
Like oh I secretly like rom coms or I actually really dig looking at flowers.
Im not able to show her the real raw stuff.
I guess Im insecure about opening up about my insecurities
32.When my girl doesnt reply or seems really distant.
Ive no clue whats wrong or what I can do to help.
33.My lack of wealth.
34.The fact that I have a bigger ass than all of my past girlfriends.
35.Im a fucking weird person.
I feel like I was made differently.
There is many people who say they are weird, many who want to be seen as weird.
But to be actually different sucks so much dick.
36.My trust issues with everyone I meet, I have been backstabbed many times, by many people.
37.I grew up and got my shit together pretty late in life.
Im insecure about my future.
Ill probably work until I die.
38.My social skills in front of women that are attractive.
Even if I have no plans to pursue something.
39.The fact that Ive never had a girlfriend and Im 23 going on 24.
40.A group of women laughing loudly when I happen to be walking by.
41.My seeming inability to fall in love again.
What if Im just dooming all my future relationships to failure before they even begin?
Also, my dick.
It could be 9 long and Id still be insecure about it.
42.The feeling that everyone depends on you while you dont have anyone to depend on.
43.My looks, my personality, my income, my car.
44.Seeing other men younger than me doing better than me.
45.People laughing at me for a mistake.
I never want to participate in anything again.
46.Being told Im creepy.
A woman at a bar 7 years ago called me creepy because I maintained eye contact during a conversation.
It actually made my gf insecure because she thought I never wanted to look at her.
Feels bad, man.
47.The fact that when I broke up with my ex, that all our mutual friends disowned me.
They were never my friends, they were hers.
Made me question all friendships.
Luckily I do have a few strong ones today.
48.My skinny chicken legs.
49.I wish I was about 50 lbs lighter.
Working on it though.
50.The general sense of loneliness an failure which makes me feel pathetic.
