Falling in love with a bad boy and hoping hell change his ways for you.
Sometimes it doesnt go well, and that is okay.
Both or only one of you doing this is not okay and not cute.
Elliott Dunning
3.Falling in love with a bad boy and hoping hell change his ways for you.
No, its notcutewhen your SO gets jealous because of everyone that looks at you; its fricking sick.
5.Love at first sight.
Not that romantic, its just physical attraction.
Lucky you if that person is also someone you end up having lots in common with.
7.Stalker/creep behavior being excused if the person is attractive.
8.The need to constantly be in a relationship.
Being single isnt the end of the world.
9.Gender norms in dating.
When people insist on needing a perfect gentleman or a perfect woman.
Girl, you gotta go ask guys out sometimes.
Relieve the pressure, make him feel special by taking him out to dinner.
Dudes, chicks arent always trying to be cute.
Sometimes chicks just wanna dick around and be crude too.
10.Thinking that when a woman saysnoshes just playing hard to get.
11.Having children, and Ill explain.
I know a lot of people that arent ready to have children, mostly because they are poor.
Then their lives, and the childs are ruined for ever.
Stop having children if you cant take care of them.
12.Perfect relationships or GTFO: A real relationship means work.
Hard work, sometimes for quite some time.
Also from both sides.
They bail so fast, and everyone tells them its ok, that they deserve/should expect perfection every moment.
13.Female characters being abusive to their boyfriend isnt abuse, its romantic.
14.Proposing in front of a large group of people.
16.The Mommy needs wine.
Your kids will be shit heads sometimes its all part of it.
Average cost of a wedding in my state is around $60,000.
A lot of people take out loans and debt for one day of living way outside their means.
18.Flashy displays of wealth and the celebrities that take part.
The worst has to be singing about it.
Act like youve been there before.
Think about what you’re free to do for others, not just masking your insecurities.
People just forget the bad stuff and never consider that it was bad back then too.
20.Staying at work late.
None of which is something to be proud of.
Im gonna get what I need from you.
21.The whole alpha male crap.
22.Not giving a fuck.
Its obviously way cooler to get your life together.
Like, I dont care about your overpriced Yeezys.
Im sure someone else has already said this but it can be said again.
26.Living those overly stressed lifestyles.
27.Going out and getting drunk on a weekend (or on a regular weeknight for that matter).
Sorry I enjoy spending my Saturday night watching Netflix and eating ice cream.
28.DISNEY MOVIES GOD DAMMIT.
Being single is awesome too.
And you will only be a real woman if you have kids.
Nicotine is extremely addicting guys.
Why the hell is every rebellious tough guy on television smoking them like a moron?
32.Cynicism under the guise of realism.
I often see younger people acting jaded in what I suspect is a defense against being seen as childish.
The unromantic skeptic is himself romanticized.
33.That everyone should go to university.
The fact is its simply not a guaranteed route to employment.
But after 7 years slaving away in the bank I became a heavy duty mechanic.
36.Not taking time off.
I hate the I havent taken a vacation/sick day in X years because I am such a hard worker.
it’s crucial that you take time for yourself, physically and mentally.
Ie twilight, 50 shades of grey.
No one would stay with those creeps in real life.
This whole culture of completely stopping your life and only existing to serve your kids is ridiculous.
Its okay to maintain an identity that is separate from motherhood.
Its okay to have hobbies, interests, a career, etc.
The sports themselves are ok, People liking sports is fine.
But when you treat athletes different from other people just because they play football, thats the problem.
My wife is having a fucking terrible time.
(7 months) and I am at my mental and emotional breaking point.
Sickness, HG, gestational diabetes, and mental breakdowns.
I hope having the actual kid will feel more rewarding and make it worth it.
42.Child abuse presented as a good parenting technique back in my day.
And really, Larry,didyou turn out just fine, because the evidence shows otherwise…?
Every relationship on TV or in movies would be a nightmare IRL.
Functional, adult relationships with good communication arent interesting so they dont get much airtime.
Its not charming, its not poetic.
It sucks and is not cool.
45.Fighting… its not cool getting almost killed and left with several inner bleedings.
47.Bipolar Disorder is not chic.
In one case youre just extremely anal.
The other, more serious case, you have a genuine mental health diagnosis.
49.Being overly busy/committing to everything someone asks for.
People who have things/activities every night and weekend stress me out.
Be at peace, just learn to be at peace.
