Hugs and affection with no ulterior motive.
Sometimes I like to be held without feeling like he’s wanting to fuck me.
I am your girlfriend.
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2.If shes complaining, or venting, its not always because she wants advice or a solution.
Sometimes all thats needed is to vent.
So, in those situations, just let her vent.
3.Do not forget to tell your girlfriend shes beautiful.
I feel like so many guys forget to do this.
Specially after theyve been with a girl for a while.
Girls love to be reminded that youre still attracted to them.
It goes a long way and itll always make her happy.
4.Plan out unique dates!
Dont leave it all up to her.
And offer back rubs without wanting anything in return.
5.Know where the clitoris is, and how your partner likes hers to be simulated.
Remember that MOST women do not get off through vaginal penetration.
6.Explain how you feel.
We want to know what youre feeling.
7.A how are you?
text and a thinking about you!
text etc goes a long way!
8.Hugs and affection with no ulterior motive.
Sometimes I like to be held with out feeling like hes wanting to fuck me.
Not just one very slow to prepare meal.
Learn to cook decent meals that can be prepared normally during a weekday.
Learn to cook without making the kitchen look like a war zone.
10.Do your share of household chores.
Dont ask or expect a medal for doing household chores once or twice.
It is a routine.
Just own the task and keep doing it.
11.You guys should be a team, not just you.
This helps in arguments.
Remind yourself you are a team and that you shouldnt bring your own teammate down.
12.Pay attention to what she says and remember the little things.
and then I see him and he doesnt compliment me!
14.Just keep your girl up to date on things if youre having a busy day.
It keeps them less worried and making sure you are safe.
15.WhenIask you what do you want me to cook for dinner, yo dont say I dont know!
Sometimes men can be as bad as women are portrayed when deciding what to eat!
16.Pay attention when she is talking.
Dont be on your phone when out to dinner.
And yes pay attention to the little things.
Do what you say your going to do.
17.Biggest thing for me is to just do what you say youre going to do.
Nothing more, nothing less.
And then if she doesnt care for your feelings you could break up.
Dont relay on your partner to carry the mental load.
Wash basket GETTING full?
Do some washing then get it dry and then put it away.
Your partner shouldnt be directing you to do everyday chores.
You should see it needs doing and do it.
Its called being a team.
This works both ways obviously.
21.Remember that women like to orgasm too!
22.Learn their love language, I would say.
What makes them feel most appreciated or most loved?
Words of affirmation, physical touch, gift giving, acts of service/devotion, or quality time.
23.Dont make her feel like your mom.
Well we dont want to be your mom and make you do these things.
Rather when you notice something needs to be done, do it.
Trust me, we will notice!
24.If she asks you to stop doing something or do something more, LISTEN.
Even if you dont agree, compromise on something you both can work with.
25.Honestly, get excitable.
I love that you do that.
Anything that shows your reassurance that they are the best.
27.If youre getting irritated with us, c’mon calmly explain why.
Otherwise, it makes us feel like were just a nuisance to you.
I get that communication is a learned skill that requires experience.
In short- encouraging & practicing open, honest, and respectful communication on both sides.
28.Dont lie or hide things from her.
Just be open and honest and vulnerable.
She will love you the more for it.
29.When youre in the store, dont call and ask what to bring.
Hopefully you have paid attention and know what she likes/what the household needs and just bring that.
Or google a recipe and buy the ingredients.
Be pro-active, dont force her into supervisor mode constantly.
30.The #1 thing all successful healthy relationships need is mutual respect.
32.Date someone youre happy with and dont have to make better.
If you need something, communicate what you need.
If you want something done by the other person, let them know your time frame up front.
Not just do the dishes.
33.Dont laugh when Im frustrated no matter how cute it is.
34.Cut your goddamn nails my dudes you dont need mountain peaks at the tips of your fingers.
35.Im a big believer in equity theory.
Do as much for her as she does for you!
Even recognition, a thank you, and some flowers goes a long way.
But its still important to show how much you care about her in your actions.
36.My husband sends me little gifs online when he sees one that he thinks Id like.
37.We dont always need you fixing solutions, sometimes we want to be heard and vent.
38.Dont put women in a box.
Thats great, but not for relationships.
You cant take your significant other out of that box and play with them only when you want to.
39.Dont tell her what to do, she is her own person.
Dont attempt to control her.
Be supportive of her dreams and aspirations (even if you dont necessarily agree with them).
40.This could go either way, but reciprocate everything.
Dont do anything you wouldnt want your S.O doing.
41.Randomly say I love you.
No context, no nothing, just say it.
42.Take her seriously when she talks about her health.
43.My grandpa thanked my grandma for the delicious meal after every.
that she cooked for him.
44.If a woman is in a bad mood NEVER I repeat NEEEEEEVER ask if shes got her period!
45.Stop caring about your looks and just take a stab at be more hygienic.
For real you people care too much about how you look and you smell awful.
47.Affirmations and validation work well.
48.Communicate instead of yelling.
49.Just take a moment to reflect on what conversations youre having and what youre bringing to them.
Are those complaints really worth the time youre dedicating to them?
I recently suggested to my boyfriend that, hey, lets make the bed a no-complaining zone.
Even nights when he didnt work would end up this way.
It gives you a moment to just consider if its really that big of an issue or not.
What hes found is that usually its not worth it, and Ive seen a positive change in him.
He seems happier now that hes not dwelling on small stuff.
50.Surprise her sometimes by remembering something you shared and calling back to it.
