I’m always trying to learn more things.
It transforms the discontent of loneliness into the solace of solitude.
1.I hang out with myself!
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2.I used to be lonely.
It was relaxing and gave off a cozy atmosphere.
It made being there alone much much much better.
I didnt dread going home alone anymore.
Then a boyfriend popped up when I least suspected it.
Probably because Id quit looking for it and gained some confidence.
3.I realize that even if nobody wants to be my friend, I can be my own friend.
I learned a lot of cool things about myself through being lonely.
4.You learn to thrive on it.
5.I talk to my dogs, as crazy as that sounds.
6.Im always trying to learn more things.
It transforms the discontent of loneliness into the solace of solitude.
7.It only bothers me when I think about it.
Basically, think about why youre lonely instead of just alone.
A lot of it is a matter of perspective.
Im lonely when Im around people, most of the time.
But not everyone does, and some people do but can also find it elsewhere.
I wouldnt assume that finding people to hang around will improve your loneliness substantially.
You may still feel empty and alone even with people around you.
Nothing like good book to take your mind off the loneliness.
to take my mind off of it.
When I want somebody to talk to I go on reddit.
you might usually find somebody wanting to talk.
Take an interest in your future and focus on bettering yourself.
I embrace the solitude but attempt to push myself to be social.
13.I never even think about being lonely.
I actually really love it.
I mean I do see people on occasion and at work but Im most happy alone.
I like to work on myself, listen to music, do my own thing before going out again.
There needs to be a balance.
I give great advice and people feel less anxious around me.
You must find a balance of being alone and social.
Too much of either is bad.
I can always tell the ones who live for social attention.
They are always uncomfortable, anxious and only talk about people instead of ideas.
These people are scared to be left alone and it baffles me.
Like I said, you have to find a balance that works for you.
14.I have a go at immerse myself in things that interest me.
And I stay in touch with the very few people I do have in my life.
Its bittersweet to think about the past.
16.Watch Netflix, cook yummy things, study, read, basically keep myself occupied rather than moping around.
When uni kicks in I study really really hard and that takes my mind off the loneliness.
If you start feeling lonely Flip it and reverse it.
Whats the problemNo friends to chill out with?
Well, Do you have food to eat?
Theres something to be thankful for.No significant other/ spouse?
Do you have a roof over your Head and somewhere to sleep?
Theres something to be thankful for.No family at the holidaysdo you have employment?
Theres something to be thankful for.
21.Multiplayer video games help a lot.
Get paired with some randos and strike up a conversation.
Play well enough and theyll want to group.
I have friends but none of them are really close to me so we never hang out.
Sometime I would feel like Im being ignored or left out(maybe my fault I dont know).
Sometime you even want to be lonely.
24.Be as busy as possible.
Watch twitch streamers to hangout with them and chat.
Go mountain biking or hiking.
26.I tend to clean and turn up some music.
27.I make a conscious effort to do things that make me happy.
Its surprisingly easy to just put it off.
29.I just accept it for now.
I avoid things that can trigger it too.
31.Ive picked up playing D&D with groups online.
32.I got a dog.
11/10 times would recommend a pet.
33.You are never alone if you love yourself.
You could find meaning in so many things in life, instead you chose to be alone and miserable.
Loneliness is a choice.
36.Sometimes when Im alone I talk to myself.
Helps me think a bit better and makes me feel less empty.
Work 40 hours a week.
When I was single I was reading a book a week.
Gym, dog and reading really helps.
38.I work a lot.
make a run at travel some.
Do stuff for other people.
39.When one pad starts sinking you jump to another.
Make lots of friends and you will never run out of lily pads.
Always go out one day of the week with a friend/friends.
Find a hobby or activity that involves people.
you’re gonna wanna first accept internally that there is nothing wrong with being alone.
41.I like being alone.
More time for myself.
Might be selfish, but I need it at the moment.
42.I worked from 7am to 8pm today.
Kept working through my lunch hour, just listened to music and worked on cars.
Probably gonna do that tomorrow too.
I do that quite a bit.
On weekends I buy and work on cars then sell them.
Its also how I work through stress among other things.
43.I think about how complicated it actually is to hang out with other people.
44.Keep yourself occupied, hobbles, exercise, work if need be.
If in the budget and have the time for it: a cat or dog.
Honestly, its just not a good time for a girlfriend anyways.
46.I plug my guitar and make some noise!
47.Watch a horror movie before going to sleep.
Im definitely wont be alone during that time.
48.By messaging friends, but that doesnt compete with physical presence.
