Snooping through your partner’s phone.
You aren’t trying to invade their privacy.
You’re simply trying to protect your heart.
Ali Pazani
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Updated 4 years ago,December 19, 2020
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Snooping through your partners phone.You arenttryingto invade their privacy.
Youre simply trying to protect your heart.
If theyre bad for you, you would rather know it right now.
But relationships require trust.
They require you to be open and honest with each other.
You cant be sneaking around, reading their messages.
You might tiptoe around their feelings because youre worried about how theyll react to your opinion.
You might feel like you cant use your voice because theres a chance itll lead to a blowout.
But in a healthy relationship, you’re able to talk about anything.
And you wont always agree.
Youre two different people.
You should appreciate your differences.
You shouldnt resent each other for them.
Like the relationship is over.
Like theres no coming back from what happened.
No one is immune to it.
And if it is, you should sit them down and have a conversation about it.
You dont want to grow to resent them over the small things.
You dont want to enter them into a contest they dont even realize theyre taking part in.
Trying your hardest to fix them.You cant save someone else.
You cant control someone else.
you’re able to only control yourself.
Besides, you shouldnt be with someone who needs to change.
You should be with someone you love exactly as they are.
If you’re gonna wanna change them to love them, why are you with them?
Keeping your options open.You might keep dating apps on your phone just in case.
You might keep an old flames number just in case.
You might have backup plans just in case.
But you cant give someone half your heart.
If youre ready to commit to them, you oughta respect them enough to goall in.
Otherwise, let them know you need some more time.
Just dont lead them on.
Dont hurt them in the same ways the last person hurt you.
