Here are ways they can protect themselves from manipulation, according to a researcher.
Narcissists can be male or female.
Inmy last article, I discussed the different laws of power narcissists in general use to manipulate their victims.
Brandon Woelfel
Here are six laws of power women can use to protect themselves in the dating world.
LAW #1: Do not let the narcissist know youre onto them.
Instead, adjust your behavior toward detachment and withdrawal whenever you see red flags.
Use actions and absence, rather than words, to enforce your standards.
It is tempting to call out narcissistic traits and behaviors in a dating partner.
It is important to keep your safety in mind, especially with someone you dont know yet.
Match energy and effort.
Put attention elsewhere if you sense youre being ignored or neglected.
A handsome, financially stable, and seemingly empathic man may seem perfect on paper.
But the way he treats you is most important.
Is he successful yet always too busy to communicate?
Remember, its not necessarily about money: its about his character.
Men generally tend to decenter their dating lives.
It is a bonus, not the entirety of their existence.
Women, on the other hand, are socialized to center men and relationships from a very young age.
LAW #4: Be ruthless about your standards and have a strong cut-off game.
Writing a list of qualities you desire in a partner as well as your dealbreakers can be helpful.
Men generally are encouraged to go after what attracts them visually.
You are just as deserving of finding someone who meets all your needs.
If they demonstrate red flags that irk you, cut them off.
You must do the same.
How does he react when you share an accomplishment or achievement he does not have?
Does he congratulate you and offer to celebrate your wins?
Or does he center himself, lash out in envy, and minimize your achievement?
LAW #6: Consider the unique safety risks women take on when dating.
Remember, youre the one who takes on the majority of the risks and burdens.
In modern romance, many women feel empowered being independent and want to show that they value equality.
Dating is different from a relationship.
Date other people if you oughta get less attached.
Get acquainted with all thered flags of narcissistsbeforeyou date.
Take your time and really enjoy the dating process.
This will give you a healthier, more balanced perspective as you look for a potential match.
