Love is not always the right answer.
It is inevitable, heart-stopping, and a life changer for some.
It is like jumping from the highest mountain without thinking how youll end up down there.
Allef Vinicius
And with rainbows and butterflies along the way, there will also be storm and sorrow.
Our heartbreaks can teach us the most important lessons in life and here are some:
1.
Love is not always therightanswer.
Allef Vinicius
Just because we love a person, doesnt mean it is right and worth it to stay.
Just because we love a person doesnt mean the relationship deserves a second chance.
Sometimes, it just doesnt work that way.
We have to accept the fact that love is not a magic word to save a relationship.
Love doesnt always conquer.
Never be sorry for who you are.
Dont be sorry for things that do not need an apology.
Dont be sorry for the days that you are insecure.
Dont be sorry for caring too much.
Dont be sorry for standing up for what you believe in.
Most importantly, never be sorry for being the person you are.
Never lose yourself because of love.
Becoming one is very romantic and feels good in the beginning of the relationship.
However, this often leads to isolation and inauthenticity.
Losing yourself will eventually become a barrier to form a true and healthy relationship.
He fell in love with you because you are YOU.
Love does not come with standards: it shall not manipulate you to become another persons ideal partner.
Love yourself, too.
Theres nothing wrong with being deeply in love.
We all know it.
But NEVER abandon your self-worth.
Dont treat yourself like you are last in line.
You also need to realize that you deserve the kind of love that isnt selfish and is pure.
Its okay to say no.
Dont hesitate to disagree and learn to respect each others differences.
You deserve to be understood, to be respected, and to be valued by your partner.
Learn to sayNoand explain yourself in a way that youll both comprehend.
Communicate and always meet halfway.
6. you might be genuinely happy on your own.
In fact, others are much happier living on their own.
Love is such a beautiful thing.
Its the feeling from within that completes us, but also can break the hell out of our hearts.
Your heartbreaks made you wiser, stronger, and a better version of yourself.
You are done with the agony, you are done with the lonely nights.
It is now the reflection of everything you have endured.
One day, youll be grateful on how these heartbreaks helped you reinvent yourself.
