If someone is refusing to see reason, theres nothing you could do to change their mind.
Their decisions belong to them.
Just like your decisions belong to you.
Hean Prinsloo
you’ve got the option to simply walk away.
Love is not enough to change them.
You shouldnt stick around simply because you believe loving them enough will convince them to treat you better.
Toxic people dont care about your feelings unless you are planning on leaving them.
But if your love hasnt changed their attitude already, it never will.
Its not your responsibility to set them right.
Your love isnt their cure.
Toxic humans arentalwaystoxic.
You might feel like you should stick around because this person isnt mean all the time.
Half of the time, theyre perfectly sweet.
They drown you in compliments.
They make you laugh.
They show you a great time.
However, you cant let the good times override the bad.
If someone is crossing boundaries on a daily basis, you cant let their good traits cloud your judgment.
No one isallbad but you have to decide whether the good times you share are worth all that pain.
Your worth isnt determined by this other person.
Dont let this person convince you that you are worthless or unlovable.
If theyre trying to bring you down, it says more about them than it does about you.
Dont believe the lies theyre tricking you into believing.
Dont let them occupy too much space in your mind.
Toxic people want you to feel bad about yourself.
Dont give them what they want from you or youre letting them win.
Your past doesnt determine your future.
Its dangerous to stick with someone simply because you have history.
Your past with them doesnt matter if theyre treating you like shit in the present.
Think of today and think of what you want for your future.
If theyre treating you terribly, all bets are off.
You arent responsible for anyones happiness except for your own.
Its not up to you to make this person happy but you should be putting effort into makingyourselfhappy.
If someone else is causing you pain, youre allowed to walk away from them.
Youre allowed to put yourself first for a change.
Its never selfish to prioritize your mental health.
