None of these things are asking for too much.
They’re only too much when you’re asking the wrong person.
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Updated 4 years ago,August 29, 2021
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Jonathan Borba
Youre allowed to send sweet texts every morning.
Youre allowed to sayI miss you.
Youre allowed to voice your emotions when youre upset or excited or annoyed.
Youre allowed to expect respect.
Youre allowed to expect a message back.
None of these things areasking for too much.
Theyre only too much when youre asking the wrong person.
Even if you toned down your clinginess, the relationship wouldve ended for another reason.
The two of you werent meant to stay together.
Theres nothing wrong with setting the bar high in your relationships but you should also cultivate your independence.
You shouldnt feel lonely the second someone leaves the room.
You might end up in a few one-sided relationships.
You might always feel like youre the one whos doing more.
But one day, those problems are going to be behind you.
One day, youre going to find someone right for you.
Someone who cherishes you.
Someone who appreciates you.
And youre going to cling to each other.
Clingy can be a badge of honor.You shouldnt be ashamed of your clinginess.
You should be proud of it, because it means you love loudly.
It means you never hold back your feelings.
It means youre transparent about the way you feel instead of hiding everything inside.
It means youre brave enough to say what you want and put it out into the universe.
