You don’t have to keep your emotions bottled up inside to get to keep the peace.
It’s not your responsibility to make other people comfortable.
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Updated 5 years ago,June 18, 2020
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SHAYAN rti
In fact, the best way to grow is by placing yourself in uncomfortable situations.
Refuse to stay silent when you see something that upsets you.
Its impossible to make everyone happy, so you might as well stop trying.
Stating your opinion isnt impolite.
It doesnt make you a bitch.
Anyone who says it does is only trying to silence you and you shouldnt let that happen.
Bringing up your complaints can strengthen relationships.Youre doing yourself a disservice by staying quiet.
It might help you grow closer.
After all, friendships and relationships require open communication.
They will want to make compromises with you.
They will want to fix whatever is wrong.
If they run away the second things get complicated, then they werent worth your effort.
They arent worth crying over.
What you might considerconflictcould turn out to be a simple conversation.Disagreements dont have to end in a fight.
The other person might be highly receptive to what you have to say.
They might be able to clear up a misunderstanding.
They might extend an apology.
The big blowup youre imagining in your mind might not happen at all.
If you never speak up when others mistreat you, it doesnt necessarily mean youre the bigger person.
It doesnt necessarily mean youre doing the right thing.
Although you might hate confrontation, youre not going to be able to run from it forever.
