You shouldn’t put effort into someone who refuses to put in effort of their own.
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Updated 4 years ago,May 31, 2021
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This person probably wouldve ended up walking away from you, regardless of how you chose to behave.
Tanner Ross
This situation doesnt reflect poorly on you.
It doesnt mean youre unattractive or unlovable.
It says more about them than it says about you.
Are they givingyouas much as youve been givingthem?
Are they making you feel valued?
Your relationship is meant to be a two-way street.
Their sudden disappearance probably wasnt meant to insult you.They probably werent trying to be mean.
They were probably trying to let you down easy.
Youre allowed to cry over what they did to you.
Youre allowed to be angry.
But you have to remember, they probably werentactivelyaiming to make you fall apart.
Maybe you were swamped with work.
Maybe you were busy dealing with mental health issues.
Or maybe you were dealing with family problems.
The point is, just because they dropped out of your life doesnt mean they hate your guts.
They might have naturally let you slip away because they had other things to worry about.
The timing might have been bad.
It wasnt actually your fault at all.
You are worthy of the world.You deserve a partner who answers your messages but you deserve more than that.
You deserve respect and self-fulfillment.
You deserve to find someone who meets your highest expectations.
Remember, you should never settle for less.
You should never let your heartaches convince you that youre going to be alone forever.
Your loneliness is only temporary.
Your sadness is only one step along a long journey.
Eventually, your relationship is going to stick.
Youre going to continue talking.
Youre going to create something real.
You dont want what happened to you to turn you into a cynic.
Youll find someone worthwhile eventually.
Things will work out for the best in the end.
