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Updated 2 months ago,March 4, 2025
- you oughta ask yourself what you want.
Not what is easiest.Its going to be tempting to take the path of least resistance.
That way, you wont have to struggle.

Francesca Zama
You wont have to worry.
You wont have to put yourself through extra stress.
However, the most comfortable path isnt always the right path.

- you gotta ask yourself what you want.
Not what the people around you want.Its hard not to be influenced by the people around you.
Your family and friends care about you.
They want whats best for you.
Even if they dont come right out and share their opinion, you probably know where they stand.
You probably know what they want from you and you dont want to let them down.
You want to make them proud.
However, this is your life.
it’s crucial that you ask yourself what you want.
you’re gonna wanna ask yourself what you want.
Not what makes the most sense on paper.Life is messy and emotions are complex.
They dont always make sense.
They want what they want.
it’s crucial that you make that decision for yourself.
- you oughta ask yourself what you want.
Not what youusedto want.Youre bound to change as you age.
Youre not going to want the same exact things you did when you were younger and thats okay.
You shouldnt feel guilty about the fact you have everything you used to want and still arent happy.
You should chase after what your heart wantsnow,not what it wanted when you were younger.
- it’s crucial that you ask yourself what you want.
Not what others expect from you.Sometimes, your actions are going to hurt other people.
Sometimes, youre going to end up causing pain.
you gotta do what is best for yourself, even if it feels selfish.