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Updated 6 months ago,October 27, 2024
He texts you at reasonable hours when hes sober.
Hes already thinking about you earlier on in the day.
He shouldnt only be reaching out when hes wasted and lonely.

He always answers your messages.
You never have to worry that hes ghosting you or annoyed by how much youve been texting him.
He makes the effort to respond because he cares about you, too.

He wants to hear from you as much as you want to hear from him.
He keeps the conversation flowing.
Hes not responding with one-word answers, relying on you to carry the entire conversation.
When youre talking, the conversation flows easily.
Youre putting an equal amount of effort into getting to know each other.
You have deep, meaningful conversations.
Youre having actual, meaningful conversations.
Its not all about sex.
He treats you with kindness and respect.
Talking to someone over text isnt all that different from talking IRL.
Hes going to be exactly the same when you meet up with him in person.
He might be worth the effort.
He makes plans to see you in person, too.
Talking to you over text is wonderful, but it isnt enough for him.
He tries to set actual plans with you and not the vague kind that never come to fruition.
He names the time and the place hes available because he wants to develop a deeper connection with you.
He wants you to be more than someone he texts.
He wants your relationship to continue to grow.