No one intends to get into a dead-end relationship.
Why does it happen?
Well, we get so caught up in thepotentialof what could be, rather than looking at whatis.
Joshua Fuller
Youre dating this guy and he just checks so many boxes.
And you rarely experience this kind of chemistry so you would be foolish to let it slip away!
Signs Hes Not Going To Commit
1.
The reasons dont matter, the facts do.
Most likely he means he doesnt want to be in a relationship withyou.
Its also possible he doesnt want to be in a relationship with anyone right now.
He may have some really great reasons, but again, it doesnt change things.
He probably also does have feelings for you.
Again, it doesnt change anything if he doesnt want to bewith you.
Hes wishy-washy
One day hes super into you, the next hes cold and distant.
Sometimes he seems like hes in love with you, other times you feel like a nuisance to him.
So whats going on?
Wishy-washy behavior, or sending mixed signals is usually a sign of uncertainty.
Hes just unsure of you.
The relationship is stagnant
Youve been in thesame spot for monthsor years.
He will allow her to really see him, to see the man beneath the mask.
Inaccurate Signs Hes Wasting Your Time
Dontruin something goodby overthinking his behavior.
Here are some inaccurate signs that hes wasting your time and what they really mean.
Hes taking space
Sometimes men need space, its how they deal with stress and emotional turmoil.
If your guy isbacking away a bitand not as attentive, it doesnt mean hes wasting your time.
He texts less often
At the beginning of a relationship, youre on a high.
You cant stop thinking about the other person and want to talk to them all day every day.
And in the beginning, you may engage in these marathon chat sessions.
But this isnt sustainable long term.
People have jobs and school and lives!
You cant just be pinging back and forth all day long.
As things get more settled, he may not text as voraciously but thats a good thing.
First, its too much to do that all day!
He doesnt just keep coming up with one excuse after the next.
And not only that- he follows through.
He doesnt leave you in no mans land.
You know hes committed to you.
He doesnt just tell you, heshows you(remember: men communicate through actions more than words).
Do you pull away and give a shot to make him chase you?
If he doesnt reply to your text for an hour should you wait three hours before responding to him?
If a guy is wasting your time there is only one thing to do: leave.
Dont make a run at prove your worth.
Dont pretend to be something you think he wants.
Men dont just let women they love walk away without a fight.
You have a chance.
Just beware of guys who come after you and then dont change and fall back into the same pattern.
As they say, fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
How to Never Waste Time Again
The antidote here is to havehigh self-worth.
Its to know what you want and know that you deserve to have it.
If you want a commitment, dont settle for the scraps some guy is willing to throw your way.
And dont tell yourself that you should hold onto this because youll never find better.
Or that this is better than being alone.
Being alone might be lonely at times, but being in thewrong relationshipcan be damaging which would you choose?
