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Updated 6 months ago,November 14, 2024
Moving in with your person is a huge step.
They expect you to cook and clean up after them.
And when the place is a mess, they have the audacity to blame you.
God & Man
They act like youre their caretaker when youre really supposed to be one half of a functioning team.
They dont respect your space.
They wont leave you alone, even when youve made it clear that you need some time to yourself.
They bother you when youve made it clear you better work on your setup or study.
They cross boundaries that make it hard for you to take care of all of your responsibilities.
They dont respect your belongings.
They go through your stuff without asking.
They eat the leftovers you were saving.
They throw out things that dont belong to them.
They might even go through your phone or your mail or your journals without permission.
Basically, you cant trust them to keep their hands off your stuff.
They dont respect the things that you value the most.
They dont involve you in decisions.
They invite over friends and family members without checking with you first.
Basically, they make decisions that impact the both of you without checking with you first.
They still act like theyre living alone when there are two people in the house.
Two people who are supposed to be workingtogether.
They dont care about your schedule.
It can be hard to adjust when youre living with someone new for the first time.
However, they should respect you enough to tweak their schedule when its making life harder for you.
They should take your feelings into account.
They refuse to compromise.
They want their couch, their bed, and their paintings in the house.
They wont even consider your own personal taste.
They want everything to stay the way they like it.
They dont want to compromise even the tiniest bit.
Its their way or the highway.
