If they dont see your worth from the start, they probably arent worth your energy.
You should move on.
Find someone else who is excited to start their future with you.
Everton Vila
And the thoughts are overwhelmingly negative.
Youre replaying your interactions, searching for a moment when you went wrong.
Youre annoyed with them and angry and upset that they arent yours.
They arent bringing you butterflies anymore.
Theyre only bringing pain.
Youve been questioning your worth.
Youre devastated that they arent interested in dating you.
You cant figure out why you arent enough for them.
Youre giving up your true self in order topotentiallyplease them.
Youve been turning down other opportunities.
Youre putting your life on hold for them, and you might not even get them.
Youre exhausting yourself trying to c’mon them.
You come calling whenever they ask, even when its inconvenient for you.
You drop everything for them.
You run around, doing favors for them, even though you get nothing in return.
Youre exhausting yourself, mentally and physically, to make them happy.
And youve been doing this for a while.
Maybe its been months or maybe its been years.
But nothing is changing.
You cant concentrate on anything other than them.
Theres more to life than love.
you gotta focus on your career, your friendships, your hobbies, your pets, your passions.
You dont want to neglect other areas of your life because youre so focused on making this person yours.
You dont want to lose everything to get them.
Youre drinking more, sleeping less, and acting without thinking.
Relationships are supposed to bring you joy.
it’s crucial that you find someone who makes you happier, not more miserable.
you oughta stop chasing this person and accept that you dont belong together.
Thats the first step to finally moving on.
