You find strength in your independence.
You do what you want, when you want.
Let me tell you about the beauty in this.
Sean Pollock
Once I stopped caring what everyone thought, I started to do what I really wanted to do.
This applies with literally everything.
I didnt care because I was living for myself.
Sean Pollock
The real question is who is going to stop me?
Dont take your passion for granted.
Find it and pursue the shit out of it.
You take no shit.
These women show us that its more than okay for us to say what exactly is on our mind.
I know for me personally, I was extremely timid until I hit my mid-twenties.
It was a slow process that started with me slowly starting to speak out when my feelings were hurt.
Then I learned to say no.
Pretty soon, I got to the point where I would stand up for myself in a split second.
Its a beautiful thing when you might say you know your self-worth.
You find a healthy routine.
Im not saying that your whole life should be routine and you better lack adventure.
Find time to exercise or meal prep as best as possible.
Maybe you schedule Sundays as your relaxation day.
Whatever it is, do the things you have to do.
double-check you stay healthy mentally and physically.
You take control of your love life.
Maybe you are interested in someone who isnt your norm or somebody your friends and family wont approve of.
Let me just say this, who the hell cares?
Its not their life and at this point if you dont put yourself first, who will?
So enjoy all the opportunities you get and just live your life.
Have fun and never regret something that at one time made you happy.
I finally had to tell people that if I want to date someone I will.
If I want to sleep with someone, I will.
Its my body, my life and ultimately my choice.
You cheer on other women.
We are raised in a society that makes us feel like other women are the competition.
Which is all bullshit.
The only thing you are competing against is who you were yesterday.
You find strength in your independence.
We all love the opportunity to be spoiled and have things handed to us.
You dont need to seek approval for things because if you want it, you just get it.
You have goals and you strive to meet them.
You no longer feel the need to dull your sunshine to not outshine other people.
You my friend are an independent bad-ass.
Welcome to the tribe.
