You should be sleeping with him because you’re excited to put your hands on him.
Not because you’re hoping sex will save the relationship.
Not because you feel like he’s going to leave if you refuse to have sex.
Dainis Graveris
You dont want to get your hopes up about him changing his mind because hes been honest with you.
He told you what he wanted and its not the same thing that you want.
If he ends up breaking your heart, he probably wont take responsibility for it.
Hell probably act like you shouldve seen this coming since he was upfront with you from the start.
Your partner is supposed to care about your pleasure.
Theyre supposed to show you a good time.
If theyre the only one benefitting from sex, then you might as well touch yourself.
You dont need him.
You shouldnt feel like youre forced into being intimate with him.
You dont owe him anything.
Dont let him guilt-trip you into giving him what he wants.
Youre in complete control of your body.
If you dont want to sleep with him, then turn the offer down.
Not because youre hoping sex will save the relationship.
Not because you feel like hes going to leave if you refuse to have sex.
Not because you feel like you oughta repay him for all the nice things hes done for you.
Not because you want to manipulate him into doing something else nice for you.
Not because its a routine and you feel like its expected of you.
If you feel uncomfortable around him.Sex is an intimate activity.
You want a partner who is going to respect your body and your boundaries.
He doesnt deserve to lay a finger on you again.
If sex is the only good thing about the relationship.You deserve a partner who fulfills you emotionallyandsexually.
You dont want to settle for less when you might have it all.
