Sometimes, communicating will at least give you some sense of closure.
Other times, dealing with this person is not worth the headache they will give you.
It will only make your mental health worse.
pawel szvmanski
This person only cares about their point of view.
They refuse to listen to what you have to say.
They have no interest in making peace with you.
Theyre only interested in winning the fight and hearing you admit that they were right.
Theyre crossing boundaries out of anger.
Theyre refusing to take responsibility for the part they played.
Its rare that one person is the bad guy and the other is completely innocent.
If they want you to take responsibility for your mistakes, then they should do the same.
They should admit when they were wrong and give apologies when theyre due.
You keep having the same arguments on a loop.
Youre not making any progress.
Whenever you speak to this person, they bring up the same arguments again and again.
They arent accepting your apologies or agreeing to work through issues with you.
If youre the only person trying to repair the relationship, youre never going to succeed.
You need two people to put in effort.
If they arent interested in anything other than a fight, then youre better off walking away.
Theres nothing more you’re free to do.
Youve apologized to them.
Youve listened to them rant.
Youve explained your side of the situation.
Youve agreed to make changes and compromises.
Youve reiterated how much you care about them.
Youve even tried giving it time, but nothing seems to work.
Youve done everything within your power to make them happy, but they are still pissed at you.
Dealing with them has become exhausting.
This fight isnt fresh.
Dealing with them is exhausting.
They only stress you out.
