They arent magically going to turn into a different human if you stick around for long enough.
No matter what you decide, one of you would end up unhappy.
One of you would end up resenting the other person.
Vlada Karpovich
And thats not a risk you want to take, not even for love.
Some people who love each other need to let each other go so they both can grow.
You dont eventalkabout the future.You havent discussed where your relationship is headed.
You havent ironed out any details with each other because youre only focused on living in the moment.
You have to have some serious conversations to check that youre not thinking wildly different thoughts.
People change and your relationship should change.
You should learn together.
You should evolve together.
You should have moved past that point by now.
Your relationship doesnt bring you happiness.Youre not always going to feel butterflies in a long-term relationship.
Youre not always going to stick at the puppy love stage.
But your person should bring you more joy than stress.
They should bring you more excitement than disappointment.
You dont want the same things you wanted when you started dating.And thats perfectly okay.
Its okay to change your mind.
Its okay to end a relationship.
Its okay if this person isnt your forever.
It doesnt make them any less important to you.
