Ive helped them set up profiles on the latest apps like Hinge, Raya, Snack, and Stir.
So whats the issue?
Dont be so attainable
From the days of Adam and Eve, the forbidden fruit theory still holds true.
Karolina Grabowska
Its a mental challenge, plain and simple.
Men want what they cannot have.
You are a busy woman with a busy life!
Stop giving a man all your time and attention when he is nothing more than a stranger.
A hopeful, possibly romantic stranger, but he has to earn your attention and affection.
Let him put in effort to show hes serious.
Know your worth
you oughta have a value for yourself.
Guys see how you present yourself, how you take care of yourself and how you respect yourself.
They base their view of you from your view of yourself.
Its not enough to say, I am fabulous and deserve a good guy.
You have to believe it.
You have to demand it.
Give him space
Youve been on multiple dates with the same guy and they are going great.
Keep cool and calm and realize its only natural.
Its an animal instinct to run from someone who is chasing you.
Do not go fishing for answers, do not contact him, let him come back to you.
If hes the right guy, he will.
Wait before you sleep with him
Seriously this one is a no-brainer.
Physical attraction is vital, but rushing into intimacy for no real reason can overshadow emotional connection.
He will learn to appreciate who you are and see you as more beautiful.
Once you are in the good time only category, there is no going back.
Dont take yourself too seriously
I often see my friends getting so upset over what a guy says.
If they want to see you, they will let you know.
If they want to be with you, they will let you know.
So if they are trying to make plans, with you loosen up and just go with it!
Stop taking yourself, and the situation so seriously.
Although physical attraction is important, authentic connection often stems from your personality and energy.
you should probably walk into the room and command attention through your genuine confidence and playful charisma.
A smile is always your best accessory.
He made her insecure and often upset but she would not let him go.
Women are so often scared to be alone.
They search for happiness in a man.
That was my friends problem.
She didnt love herself and in return neither did her partner.
