How do you learn to trust someone again?
You begin to have trust issues.
How do you learn to trust someone again?
Alex Boyd
How do you trust that they arent going to walk out when things get hard?
How can you assume that they arent going to make you feel insecure, jealous and worthless?
You are scared.
Along with the lack of trust, you are just plain terrified to let someone in again.
The healing process takes longer.
Now this isnt just a normal breakup.
Alex Boyd
Its the kind of healing that involves rebuilding yourself and your life.
You start to find yourself again.
You get to re-learn about yourself.
You find out who you are, what you love and what brings you genuine joy and happiness.
Loving a toxic person can take a lot out of you.
It can take so much from you, that you forget how to love and take care of yourself.
Now is the time to take back your own life.
You get stronger.
Your ex took a piece of you that you will never get back.
You gave them your all and they completely broke you down and destroyed you to your core.
They left you there, bare and uncovered and forced you to find a new version of yourself.
As weak as this caused you to be, you are so much stronger for having been through it.
You will never be the person you were before this experience, and that is a very good thing.
You learn what you want.
And what you willNEVERtolerate again.
This experience destroyed you, nobody can argue with that.
However, this will make you better.
