The path to finding love is filled with misconceptions thanks to movies and mainstream media.
Stop being so needy.
Neediness usually stems from a lack of self-esteem or a sense of worth.
Jonathan Borba
If you were unhappy before the relationship, youll be unhappy in it.
Instead of feeling sorry for yourself about being single, work on your relationship with yourself.
Work on feeling OK and happy with where you are right now.
Stop looking for love and learn to love yourself.
The number one way to attract love is to make yourself into a vessel that can receive it.
And the subconscious mind is always looking to prove itself right.
In general, like attracts like.
If you areemotionally unavailable, you will attract a guy who is emotionally unavailable.
Ask yourself: would I want to date me?
What are you bringing to the table?
If you want that kind of guy, you oughta be that kind of girl.
Stop playing a role.
Maybe its due to societal conditioning or maybe because deep down we dont feel good enough.
Because there was no genuine connection.
Love is about being seen and known and vulnerable.
This doesnt need to happen right away and should be a gradual process.
But you cant really get to a deeper place unless you peel back some of those layers.
Stop playing the victim.
You are not single because there is some grand conspiracy to keep you this way.
It isnt just you!
But its easier to place the blame elsewhere… anywhere that doesnt fall on you.
Take control of the narrative and re-frame the way you look at your circumstances.
Stop idealizing your ex.
This faulty belief get wired in and then it becomes part of your story.
You start to expect negative outcomes… and then you experience them.
Then do whatever you’re gonna wanna so that correct those.
It isnt always easy but its necessary for your healing.
And when has stressing over something ever gotten you the thing?
It just uses up all your mental energy and depletes you and again, gets you nowhere!
It will be OK.
