You’re spending more time worrying about perception than reality.
If your bar is already set low, you shouldnt settle for someone who risesjustabove the bar.
You should hold out for someone who raises it as high as possible.
Pablo Heimplatz
Youre spending every waking moment together.Its great that youre best friends.
Its great that you have so much in common.
Its great that you spend quality time together every single day.
But youre supposed to have your own lives.
Youre stuffing your emotions down to avoid confrontation.You shouldnt keep your feelings to yourself.
If something is bothering you, your person deserves to know.
Its dangerous to convince yourselfits not that big of a dealandyoull get over it.
And youre going to grow more resentful about the behavior over time.
it’s possible for you to just enjoy the relationship.
Youre trying to follow a timeline.You should move at your own pace.
Dont feel pressured to do anything youre not ready to do or anything you arent actuallyinterestedin doing.
you could take your time.
you might make your own rules.
