We never became official because he ghosted me.
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Updated 5 years ago,January 12, 2020
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We never became official because he ended up dating someone else.He blindsided me by getting another girlfriend.
Daniel Monteiro
I was completely thrown off, completely heartbroken, because I hadnt seen any warning signs.
I assumed he felt the same way about me.
I assumed I was the only girl he was texting, the only girl he was complimenting and cuddling.
Apparently I was wrong.
Apparently there was at least one other girl.
Apparently, he liked her more than he ever liked me.
We never became official because he ghosted me.I still have no idea why he walked away.
One day, he was behaving like he was already my boyfriend.
The next day, he dropped off the face of the planet.
He stopped answering texts.
He stopped looking at my stories and snaps.
He completely disappeared without a clear reason, without giving me any sort of closure.
We never became official because hewasnt ready for a serious relationship.I misread the flirting.
He was perfectly happy spending time with meno strings attached but I wanted more.
I wanted a real relationship.
I could not handle a casual relationship without any hope of a future.
I could not handle calling him an almost.
So I stopped calling him completely.
We never became official because the timing was never right.I liked him.
We should have gotten together, but for some reason, it never happened.
Sometimes, one of us was busy with work.
Sometimes, one of us was out of town.
Sometimes, one of us was in another relationship.
Even though we had strong feelings for each other, we always found a reason to keep our distance.
We never took the next step.
I realized I would never be able to trust him.
I realized he was not what I was looking for in a partner.
I could feel myself getting annoying.
I knew that wasnt a recipe for a healthy relationship.
I knew we werent going to work out.
