This person has hurt you before.
There is a chance they haven’t changed one bit.
There is a chance they will hurt you again.
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You dont want to get back with your nasty ex.
You dont want to forgive the friend who crossed an unforgivable line.
Send them a letter.
Ease back into your relationship with them.
Remember, you dont have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
Set ground rules.Make it abundantly clear to them what you expect out of your arrangement.
Its a good way to show them (and yourself) how you feel.
You dont want to pretend everything is fine and ignore your shared history.
If there are old things still bothering you, you should discuss them.
Dont let them linger.
Get everything out in the open.
Dont get too emotionally invested.This person has hurt you before.
There is a chance they havent changed one bit.
There is a chance they will hurt you again.
You dont want to put yourself in a situation where you are insecure and miserable.
it’s crucial that you put your mental health first and your relationship with them second.
Be ready to cut ties again at any time.Youve already given this person a chance and they blew it.
If they mess up again, you cant hesitate to walk away.
Youve done it once.
you’ve got the option to do it again.
Of course, it wont be as easy as you think, so confirm you are prepared emotionally.
- double-check this isreallywhat you want.You dont owe them your time or your attention.
Dont let guilt trick you into talking to them again.
Dont let your loneliness convince you theyre the bet youre going to get.
Only do this if youre one-hundred percent sure it will makeyouhappier.
