Youre going to miss him.
His quirks, his laughter, his touch.
Youre going to miss the way you were together.
Brooke Cagle
Especially when youre in love and are so happy in your relationship.
Where did you go wrong?
Where did you not see that this was happening on the side?
Brooke Cagle
Could it have been avoided?
Overanalyze, figure out how this happened, think of how you sent him running.
First of all, its not you.You didnt do anything wrong except love someone who was much too selfish.
You loved someone who loved himself and his own desires too much that he didnt care about yours.
The process involved in mending our broken heart is not an easy one nor does it happen quickly.
Especially when you are left for another woman.
This heartbreak can be devastating.
But before you get lost in your sorrow, you should probably remember a few very important things.1.
you better cry, you better mourn the loss of something that felt so beautifully right.
Cry it out, wear black and mourn, but work through it.
Dont get consumed by your grief because its not worth it.2.
Youre going to miss him.His quirks, his laughter, his touch.
Youre going to miss the way you were together.
How everything was smooth and flowed so easily.
How it felt right.
Is it the way he treats you when its just you and him?
The way he looks into your eyes and tells you he loves you?
The way you feel laying next to him?
You will feel resentment.Its okay to look in the mirror and wonder how the hell he didnt choose you.
You both made each other so happy.
Whats not okay is to start doubting yourself because he chose someone else.
Nothing you could have done to make him realize that you were the best choice.4.
Youre going to learn to trust your intuition.
There are signs in every relationship that we choose to neglect sometimes.
These warning signs are our gut instinct, the feeling that something just isnt quite right.
You know these signs because you actively ignored them and brushed them aside.
You believed that they were your own insecurity and you didnt want to sabotage the relationship.5.
Dont think you werent good enough.Hell no.
You didnt deserve the way you were left.
You DO deserve better.You deserve someone who looks at you, and only you.
You dont deserve to be just another choice among others, you deserve to be the only choice.
Remember your worth, darling.
You deserve it all.
