You’re lying about your experience to get to stroke your partner’s ego.
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Updated 5 years ago,June 26, 2020
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You are accidentally going to encourage them to keep doing things that you cannot stand.
Dainis Graveris
They are going to assume what theyve been doing has been working.
Theyre going to assume you are satisfied.
Its going to get them confused about what you actually like in the bedroom.
Youshouldwant them to have a good time.
Youshouldbe putting effort into making them happy.
But they should be doing the same.
Your hard work should be reciprocated.
You have to remember, sex is about your pleasure, too.
You shouldnt be so concerned with whether theyre having a good time that you forget to enjoy yourself.
You should both be giving and both be receiving in some way.
Youve kept them a secret because youre worried about getting judged, being rejected, or insulting them somehow.
You should let them know whats been on your mind because its impossible for them to guess.
You have to be more transparent about your needs if you want them to get met.
You dont evenconsideryour partners sex ideas.You should never feel pressured to do something your partner mentions.
You should never allow them to guilt trip you into giving them what they want.
However, you shouldnt automatically discount their ideas without taking them into consideration, either.
You might end up loving a new activity, toy, or position.
You donthaveto try anything new, but you should at least open yourself up to the possibility.
When youre in the mood, you shouldnt hesitate to approach your partner.
Sometimes, its sexier to do the work yourself.
It can make you feel more in control.
