Emotional infidelity is still infidelity.
Her fondness for this charming barista grew as they become closer.
After some time, she couldnt seem to draw a line between mere admiration and attraction.
Josh Felise
She caught herself dressing up solely for him.
She started drinking more coffee just to catch a glimpse of its source.
She even wrote a poem on a table napkin, addressed to him.
Found yourself in the same situation?
I hate to break it to you but chances are, youre cheating.
And no, you dont always have to touch the other mans fingertips to be unfaithful.
Josh Felise
Emotional infidelity is still infidelity.
In fact, its often more intense and hurting than physical cheating.
Its beyond flesh to flesh contact its an affair of the heart.
Cheating, whether its physical or emotional, is a crime.
Its just egocentric and nobody deserves to be treated with such.
But when you do this to impress a particular person, thats a different story.
You smile more brightly and you modulate your voice to become more musical and inviting.
It sometimes reaches to the point of demonizing your own partner.
You start making comparisons
He has 6-pack abs while your partner has 2-pack flabs.
Youre into music, hes into music, while your partner isnt.
You share the same views about marriage, while you and your partner dont.
Eventually, you start fantasizing about your future together, and thats not a good sign.
You text more often, even til the wee hours.
You even talk to him more than your best friend, and share private information with him.
You feel understood by him.
You feel more connected with him.
Guilt is the sole reason why you feel the need to hide.
However, you have to be clear about boundaries and keeping transparency with your partner.
Why are you spending too much time with this person?
Why do you keep on wanting to see him?
Do you still love your partner?
Are you still satisfied with your relationship?
What are the lapses in your current relationship?
Do you still want to resolve them?
Come clean for everyones sake!
