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Updated 5 years ago,July 24, 2020

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You are going to doubt intentions.

You are going to question whether people are planning on staying.

7 Dangerous Mindsets That Are Going To Stop You From Finding Love

Taisiia Stupak

you should probably learn that youarevaluable, that youarea catch, that youareworthy of love.

Every relationship is going to end like my last relationship.History isnt bound to repeat itself.

As long as you are careful moving forward, then you wont get hurt the same way twice.

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They might not break your heart.

They might treat it delicately.

They might treat it right.

I would rather stay single so I dont get hurt.Life is all about taking risks.

Even if you stay single and swear off of relationships, you might still grow attached to people.

you’re able to still feel your heart shatter.

You arent protecting yourself as much as you think you are.

If youre lucky enough to find someone special, you should at least give love a chance.

You might get hurt in the end, but youll also hurt yourself by doingnothing.

Im much happier on my own than I would be in a relationship.Its great that youre independent.

Its great that you dont need anyone else to make it feel happy, successful, fulfilled.

But you shouldnt push everyone else away, just for the sake of saying youre strong and independent.

Youre allowed to care about others.

Youre allowed to fall in love.

Youre allowed to appear vulnerable.

Everyone moves at a different pace.

It makes absolutely no difference, so no, youre not too far behind.

Its not too late for you.

You shouldnt give up hope of finding love.

All the good guys are taken.If theres no one good enough for you, you should stay single.

You shouldnt lower your standards.

However, you shouldnt discount every single person you meet under the assumption theyll disappoint you.

Some people will surprise you.

Some people are worthy of your time.

Some people deserve a chance.

Youre not too screwed up to find someone special.

Youre simply going through a rough time right now and youre going to pull yourself out of it.