Get your shit together.
Why would you even have a go at be dating if your life is a mess?
Get out of debt.
Luis Fernandes
Set a healthy and positive mindset and attitude.
Clear yourself of all baggage and trust issues from any previous relationships.
verify you are living congruent to your personal values.
Learn to listen.
Its not enough to just hear her words.
You must take the time to actually consider what she is saying.
Dont interrupt or talk over her.
Ask follow up questions to show you care and understand.
You wont know how to love if you dont know how to listen.
Put effort into your looks.
You dont have to be a 10, but do make an effort to keep yourself in shape.
Eat healthy, take care of your body, and dress well.
you might dress comfortably and still be you, but dont show up to your date in sweats.
Dont be afraid to pursue.
Men were born to pursue women.
Being hunters by nature, they enjoy the challenge of qualifying themselves to a woman first.
Sure there are exceptions, but as we all know, exceptions dont make the rule.
Dont just text.
It will be a nice surprise and provide the chance to strengthen your bond as well.
Show genuine interest.
The distinction here isnt just in a mans words, but in his actions.
Be present.
Know when to stay off your phone while youre with her.
Its considered to be rude and you launch the risk of your date feeling deliberately ignored by you.
However, an exception might be if you are using it to take a photo together.
Dont forget that life isnt in your phone its happening right beside you, right now.
Be mindful of enjoying these moments while you have them.
