Thats what makes them so endearingthey help you see the world through new eyes.
But they didnt become that way overnight.
Most spiritual blossoming comes after the soul has been ripped apart.
Jonas Svidras
So you sit, and you cry, you wallow and you mourn.
You wonder if you couldve done more.
Or if, somewhere along the way, you went wrong.
But the ones who stay on the path of solitude are different.
They become who theyve always wanted to be.
Heres why you become stronger by staying single after a hard breakup.
After all, that person had many interests that kept them happy whilst they were alone.
Once youve reached that place and rebuilt the walls, youll soon wonder what else you might achieve.
And thats when things really start to change.
This newfound ambition is the formation of a new and improved positive outlook.
And once its ingrained in you to be that way, theres no going back.
3) You grow resilient to negativity
Peoples bad vibes are never welcoming.
Who wants to be around misery all the time?
By patiently allowing yourself to ride through the pain, you realize that life is short.
It must not be wasted on people or things that will only bring sadness.
A sense of compassion will allow you to weigh up what is fixable and what is not.
And if its not, youll be able to walk away knowing you made the right decision.
4) You learn to say yes!
Keeping yourself entertained when youre single is made easier when you try new things.
Its revolutionary to finally embark on a side of yourself that has been previously neglected.
Youre going to love this new learning curve.
5) You make wiser choices
Silence is golden, as they say.
And with this stillness comes a time to sit back and reflect on all of your past decisions.
Whether they turned out well or ended up as regrettable mistakes, everything suddenly becomes clear to you.
And now all the decisions you make in the present come far more quickly to you.
Its amazing how much simpler life becomes when you develop peace of mind.
6) You gain confidence
Undoubtedly, a tough split will knock the stuffing out of you.
No matter your physical strength or determination to carry on, you just cant help but feel beaten.
You soon decide to pick yourself up and say, Fuck it!
Todays a new day.
Life, and all the things within it, become doable again.
Big or small, youll just go for it.
Because once youve been to the bottom, the only way is up, right?
Every days goals are structured around things youve created.
By taking the time to get to know yourself again, youve ascertained what makes you tick.
Because being independent creates self-assurance.
And now youre comfortable in your own skin again, the world is your oyster.
Every individuals experience will be different, and some will take longer than others.
Have faith and be proactive.
Youre more awesome than you know.
