Relationships require effort but you shouldnt be the only one putting in the effort.
You might feel like you arent sure where they stand.
You might be tempted to text them so you can get closure.
Jonathan Borba
You deserve to be treated right.
You shouldnt have to text someone three times so you can get an answer.
You shouldnt have to beg someone to hang out with you to convince them to stop by your place.
Relationships require effort but you shouldnt be the only one putting in the effort.
You shouldnt be chasing after love.
It should be a little easier than that.
3.They already showed you where their priorities lie.
They already showed you they arent as interested in you as you are in them.
Regardless of how much you like them, you dont want to end up in a one-sided relationship.
4.You arent going to change their mind.
Nothing you say is going to convince them to start valuing you.
Someone who you are always going to be worried will take off again?
Chasing them isnt worth the hassle.
It will only bring you more heartache in the end.
5.You might want to give them the benefit of the doubt.
You might come up with excuses to justify their disappearance.Maybe theyve been swamped with work.
Maybe they had a family emergency.
Maybe they got into an accident themselves.But its not that hard to answer a text.
If any of those things happened to them,theywould still get back toyouafter a few weeks.
If they dont bother to reconnect, then the relationship probably wasnt meant to be.
6.You probably miss this person.
You probably wish this person was still in your world.
Youre probably putting this person on a pedestal but you have to admit, ghosting isnt attractive.
It should be a wake up call that this person wasnt as perfect for you as you originally thought.
7.You shouldnt chase after someone who is perfectly fine with the idea of ducking out of your world forever.
You should hold out for someone who is as excited to see you as you are to see them.
Someone who loves hanging out with you.
Someone who believes youre worth the effort.
Someone who would never disappear out of the blue because spending time without you would hurt way too much.
