Its a cliche, but it really is true that you get the love you think you deserve.
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Updated 8 years ago,September 22, 2017
Its not them, its you.
But what if the guys you date arent really at fault?
Jake Melara
What if youre the one to blame?
Dont get me wrong; the guys youre dating might be jerks, and you might have bad luck.
You think youll be the one to change them, but youre setting yourself up to get hurt.
However, according to Hendrix, this isnt necessarily a bad thing.
Unfortunately, many men arent willing to hang in there and give it a chance when things get tough.
Otherwise, you might just push that person away when he comes along.
Jake Melara
Youre afraid to be vulnerable
Falling in love is scary.
You might end up getting hurt.
But if youre not willing to take that chance, youll never get what you want.
You cant keep a wall up around your heart and expect to connect with someone in a meaningful way.
Are you looking for someone who values honesty above all else and never even tells a white lie?
If you dont know what you want, you wont get it.
So write it down and be clear about your goals for a relationship.
Otherwise, youll keep ending up unhappy, and you may not even know why.
