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Updated 5 years ago,November 23, 2019
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Either way, it doesnt matter now.
The relationship is over.

Brittani Burns
You simply have to accept what happened without blaming yourself for notrealizingit was about to happen.
Sometimes, heartaches happen out of the blue.
But youre not any less beautiful or intelligent or strong than you were when you were in a relationship.

Nothing has changed at your core.
Youre still the same person, so you shouldnt resort to questioning yourself.
Theres nothing wrong with you.
Your heart is stronger than you think.Youve been thrown off by this heartache because you didnt see it coming.
You didnt have time to prepare for it.
But dont get it twisted.
Your heart isnt weak.
Its more durable than you realize.
One day soon, youll feel better again.
And love is unpredictable.Unfortunately, theres a risk that comes with every relationship.
Whenever you hand your heart over to someone, youre giving them the potential to crack it in two.
Thats not something that should scare you moving forward, but its something you should always keep in mind.
It will remind you to keep your standards high.
It will remind you to choose your loves wisely.
Youre changing as a person every single day.
Maybe you need someone who fits this evolving, maturing version of you better.
You have to stay positive.