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Updated 5 years ago,November 30, 2019

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It cannot be controlled.

Refusing to get into a relationship doesnt protect you from heartache.

7 Reminders For When You Want To Shut Your Heart Away

Artur Tumasjan

Pushing other people away isnt going to solve your problems.You shouldnt close yourself off.

You shouldnt raise your guard too high.

Not everyone is your enemy.

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Not everyone is going to hurt you like youve been hurt before.

Some people deserve a chance.

Some people deserve your heart.

But youve learned from your mistakes.

Youve grown from your experiences.

You know better moving forward.

You know what red flags look like and you know what you deserve.

Love is a beautiful thing.Dont let your heartache confuse you.

Dont let it turn you into a skeptic who believes happiness is a lie.

Despite the dark side of love youve seen, relationships are not all bad.

Love is a wonderful thing when youre with the right person.

You just have to find that person.

Fear is the most dangerous thing in the world.Fear is going to keep you inside your comfort zone.

Fear is going to keep you away from happiness.

You have to focus on what could go right.

Or better yet, focus onthe moment.

There are bound to be failed relationships along your way to your forever relationship.

Youre not doing anything wrong.

Youre on the right track.

You deserve to love and to be loved back.Youre not a lost cause.

Youre not too screwed up to find someone who loves you for you.

You deserve to be happy.

You deserve to feel loved.

So stop being so hard on yourself.

Stop calling yourself a lone wolf.

Stop locking up your heart and throwing away the key.

Stay open to love.

Stay open to risks.

Stay open to possibilities.